A couple of years ago I went to Poland, where I met a man I love, but now life has put me in a serious choice.

Ulyana found herself in a difficult life situation when It is important to make the right choice. She fell in love with a Polish man and was ready to marry him. But on the way to female happiness is the child from the first marriage and the mother. How will the heroine of this story, read further in the article.



Almost 5 years ago I moved to Poland to make money. Got into debt and couldn't find anything better than to come here. The path is already trodden. At home, I have a mother and a 12-year-old son.

I raised him without a husband because we had divorced him a long time ago. He does not take much part in his son’s life. Kostya only sometimes spends weekends with him and buys him sweets. But no significant help and especially alimony from him can not be expected.



After the divorce, I moved back to my mother. It was hard because my salary is small. If it wasn't for my mom's pension, I don't know how we'd handle it. At some point, I had to borrow a new refrigerator. Then we were flooded by the neighbors above. Another loan. So I ended up in a debt hole that I could get out of by moving to Poland.

At first she worked in a factory and lived in a dormitory. Then I was lucky to find a job in the store. That's where I met Mateusz. Our relationship developed very rapidly. I moved in with him and we started living together. I've never felt so safe before!



Nothing seemed to destroy our happiness. But a full-scale war began in Ukraine. And my family moved in with me. At first, Mateusz didn't mind us all living in his apartment. But over time, the situation in the house became heated. I saw he couldn't get along with my mom or my son.

Living with a Pole got worse when Mateusz proposed to me. He wants me to be his wife. But he doesn't want to live with my relatives. Of course, I do not want to change the child for a potential husband.



I also dream of peace at home. But so far, everything is in limbo. I had to move out and pick up my family. Now we are filming a small one-piece in one of the sleeping areas of Warsaw.



We are still in contact with Mateusz. He always asks me when I will be back with him. And he doesn't understand the difference. After all, I left Ukraine and did not worry about my son. But it's not! I sent money to my mom and supported it as much as I could. Now I just want to make my personal life. And I don't know what to do. I just can’t leave my mother and son right now. It is not possible to send them home either.



Compounding the problem, Mateusz flatly refuses to communicate with my son. He doesn't want his children. That puts me off a lot. But what do we do? Sometimes I feel like I just need to break up with him. Sometimes I think I'm willing to give up everything for this man. I'm suffering and I don't know what to do next. Am I a bad mother?

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? First of all, Ulyana needs to understand her feelings in order to understand what she really feels about Mateus. Perhaps this is not love at all, but just affection? One way or another, not everyone can live with a person who gives such ultimatums. It's important to make the right choice! Whether a woman is ready to sacrifice her own son for the sake of a ghostly marriage is difficult to say.

I wonder what you think about that?