The main fear of all married women, according to American psychologists

You never know, What a marriage life Wait for you until you go down the aisle. Often women give themselves to relationships. And then you bite your elbows because you have to reap the benefits of your mistakes.



Alina’s husband left for another, younger woman after 20 years of marriage. Did she think that this would ever happen? Of course not. She literally did everything for her husband. But in return, she got treason. Should all women be afraid of this? I suggest to understand this further in the article.

I honestly believed that I would get married once and for life. At university, I fell in love with a guy, I wanted him to pay attention to me. But Sasha changed girls like gloves, he didn't care about me. Until one day he asked me out on a date.

We started a relationship. I guess I caught him with something. And after graduation, he asked me to get married. Times were tough. We had to look for any job as long as there was money for food. By some miracle, we survived the 90s, got on our feet. We decided we had to do something of our own. I wanted to start my own business. We borrowed money and started our own business.



Fortunately, things started to get better. I became Sasha's right-hand man. In the beginning, I worked for several people. I kept all the accounting, all the calculations, money nuances. And then I got pregnant and went into motherhood. At the same time, she managed to keep the house clean, and cook, and help her husband with documents.

I did everything he asked me to do for him. And I thought he appreciated it. The business was very successful. My husband and I were able to start our own company and create jobs. When my son went to school, I went back to the company full time. And after work, I did lessons with Roma.



My husband was always happy with me. I never thought we had any problems. We could only fight because of our work, because often our views on the future of our company differed. Sasha always took my opinion into account and tried to find a compromise.

It has been 18 years since our wedding. And I began to notice that the relationship was rapidly deteriorating. My husband hired a woman. And then I delegated some of my responsibilities to her. He explained that by taking care of me. I've been working for so many years. It's time for me to rest and do what's close to my heart.



I was a little confused because I was used to my rhythm. I didn’t see anything suspicious about my husband’s actions. And then our relationship started to deteriorate. We drifted apart. Sasha always disappeared at work, began to go on some strange business trips. This woman was with him forever, because now she is his right hand.

I don’t understand why I didn’t feel like my husband was cheating on me. And he freed me from my job so I wouldn't suspect anything. The girl Sasha hired, very soon began to download the license. She talked to me like I was the last person in the company.



I didn't want to find out about my husband. I just wanted to hear the truth from him, not the excuses. Unfortunately, I managed to do this when I caught Sasha red-handed 2 years later. He clamped with this special in his office during his lunch break. After 20 years together, the husband went to another, younger woman. But why? I was willing to do anything for him.

When a woman devotes her whole life to her husband, she often forgets about herself, about her identity. Alina just lost her. This is a common problem faced by women in marriage. This may be the reason why men start cheating. However, that does not justify them.



A strong marriage is possible only when two independent people know what they want from their lives. They move in the same direction, but do not dwell on the desires and needs of their partner.

How do you see a strong marriage?