My husband left all the property to me after the divorce, and I kind of have to be happy, but it depresses me.

When you find out after a decade of successful marriage that your spouse is cheating on you, the first decision is to file for divorce. My husband betrayed me. When I found out about this, I immediately said that I was not going to forgive. I was surprised by his reaction as he was not against divorce. And he surprised me even more when he told me that all the property and money after the divorce will remain for me. Like that, no fight?



Money after 10 years of marriage I was even offended by his position. It was as if everything we worked together meant nothing to him. It was as if marriage meant nothing to him.

We've lived together for over 10 years. We may not grow old together (we are only 35 years old), but this is a decent time. We worked together a lot and built a house for ourselves. Set up everything inside for a life together and for our son. And now my husband just gives it away. Like he doesn't need it. As if the family is only an appendage to a certain period of life.



My girlfriends support me. They don’t understand why I deserve such indifference. Not only did he cheat on me (I still blame myself for not noticing earlier), but he still does not try to somehow preserve the relationship.



The worst part is that I still love him. And it hurts me so much that my husband wants to get rid of me that he's not even ready to fight for his half of the property. Of course, I tried to find out from him why this behavior. But all I heard was that we had nothing to talk about. Like we're strangers...



Soon the picture began to clear up. At least that partly explains the rush. Our mutual friends said that the mistress of her husband, to whom he left (a girl 10 years younger than him, by the way), from a very wealthy family. And they say she's expecting a baby. It is quite possible and logical that the husband is in a hurry to get rid of the previous family before the birth of this child.



I hope he doesn’t forget our son. He's about 9 years old. The boy is still very vulnerable. The husband says that all the money after the divorce will remain for his maintenance. And that in the future he will help.



The way is even so, but the breakup of a family for a child is a difficult test. I am trying to convey to my ex-husband that life does not converge on material goods alone. Communication with your son is very important. I hope he heard me.

Money After Divorce – Is it possible to forgive this attitude to your family? Is it good or bad if all the property goes to the mother and child? Does this mean that there is no love?