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The son left the daughter-in-law with the child in his arms, leaving them penniless, but I could not do the same.
For parents, we will always be the best and most loved. That's the nature of father-mother love. Even the most pitiful He will find at least a drop of understanding and sympathy for his wrong decisions. The only thing worthy of repentance and repentance.
Interestingly, mothers are usually more sympathetic to sons, and fathers are more sympathetic to daughters. I wonder why. Do you have any thoughts on that? It must have something to do with instincts. But even so, our reader was able to find the strength and make the right choice. A life story.
My son left his wife almost a year after she gave birth to his son. I consider this to be the lowest and most disgusting thing a man can do. I don’t know how to treat him like a person.
She's from a poor family, and I know her mom from work. Once upon a time we worked in a factory in neighboring shops. We talked about something a couple of times. A calm, hard-working woman. I can’t say anything specific about her, after all we were more colleagues than acquaintances.
In the 2000s, when after the difficult situation with the economy pulled up and our internal troubles, the husband could not stand and left home. In general, we have not had anything glued in a long time, and I did not blame him. Yes, I had another man, although it did not lead to anything serious.
I started raising my son by myself. Disappeared at work, but we had some supplies. My son gave up on studying, spent a lot of time with friends. I've often heard bad stories about him from my neighbors, but remember what time it was. The strength and nerve to constantly clarify the relationship was already exhausted, and I thought: be what will happen. It's life.
Growing up, the son became more serious about the right things. He stopped disappearing on some “inscriptions”, found a job. Nothing special, but the change from the pockets of my jacket stopped disappearing. Good sign. And then he met Julia, and things went uphill.
Courtship, wedding, life apart. As a mother, I loved everything that happened. The daughter-in-law is modest, smart. The hostess, according to his son, is also nothing. With her mother I found a common language, and I saw no reason to worry. Even at work, I was promoted, so money began to suffice even for a long-forgotten hobby - going to the theater.
And then, hello. The son is leaving the family. At first, he lies that he needs to revise some of his guidelines. He thinks that perhaps it is only for a while and he most wants to live with his son and wife. But I already suspected something was wrong. And then my daughter-in-law admitted to me that she found strange missed calls from the same number on his phone.
It turns out that the son had another woman. And pregnant. By my count, he was with her after the birth of his first child. This is the real thing of a weakling. How can you show such disrespect to your woman and child? They divorced, the son stayed in the old apartment, because he could afford it. The daughter-in-law went to her mother.
For a long time I dared not come to her, to visit my grandson. But she finally pulled herself together and contacted them via social media. I grabbed something delicious and came. But what I saw shocked me: no, the apartment was clean. Modest, but no dirt or spiders.
My grandson was sitting in the kitchen eating some soup. Not soup, not porridge, but some yummy of water, onions and potato residues. I haven’t seen anything like this since early 2000. It was terrible. Turns out there's no money. The son pays some pennies and even constantly gnaws at the daughter-in-law that she spends everything on herself. She's wearing a dress that was fashionable 7 years ago.
I thought a hobby was good, but now I need to change it. Theatre will take a back seat. I would rather spend this money on food and help my daughter-in-law and grandson. The next day I had a conversation with my son. He was trying to make fun of it, spinning around in a frying pan. Lied. He needs to shift his attention from the old family to the new one. Get a car on credit. He asked me for help.
Even started screaming when I found out that I had decided to help his first wife with money. Called me mean. My mother. And in that moment, I knew I had made the right choice. You should have done that from the beginning. My son is a coward and a traitor. He deserves only that kind of treatment. I don't want to know my second daughter-in-law. I'll help you first. Now she's my only daughter. I don't have any more kids.
Interestingly, mothers are usually more sympathetic to sons, and fathers are more sympathetic to daughters. I wonder why. Do you have any thoughts on that? It must have something to do with instincts. But even so, our reader was able to find the strength and make the right choice. A life story.
My son left his wife almost a year after she gave birth to his son. I consider this to be the lowest and most disgusting thing a man can do. I don’t know how to treat him like a person.
She's from a poor family, and I know her mom from work. Once upon a time we worked in a factory in neighboring shops. We talked about something a couple of times. A calm, hard-working woman. I can’t say anything specific about her, after all we were more colleagues than acquaintances.
In the 2000s, when after the difficult situation with the economy pulled up and our internal troubles, the husband could not stand and left home. In general, we have not had anything glued in a long time, and I did not blame him. Yes, I had another man, although it did not lead to anything serious.
I started raising my son by myself. Disappeared at work, but we had some supplies. My son gave up on studying, spent a lot of time with friends. I've often heard bad stories about him from my neighbors, but remember what time it was. The strength and nerve to constantly clarify the relationship was already exhausted, and I thought: be what will happen. It's life.
Growing up, the son became more serious about the right things. He stopped disappearing on some “inscriptions”, found a job. Nothing special, but the change from the pockets of my jacket stopped disappearing. Good sign. And then he met Julia, and things went uphill.
Courtship, wedding, life apart. As a mother, I loved everything that happened. The daughter-in-law is modest, smart. The hostess, according to his son, is also nothing. With her mother I found a common language, and I saw no reason to worry. Even at work, I was promoted, so money began to suffice even for a long-forgotten hobby - going to the theater.
And then, hello. The son is leaving the family. At first, he lies that he needs to revise some of his guidelines. He thinks that perhaps it is only for a while and he most wants to live with his son and wife. But I already suspected something was wrong. And then my daughter-in-law admitted to me that she found strange missed calls from the same number on his phone.
It turns out that the son had another woman. And pregnant. By my count, he was with her after the birth of his first child. This is the real thing of a weakling. How can you show such disrespect to your woman and child? They divorced, the son stayed in the old apartment, because he could afford it. The daughter-in-law went to her mother.
For a long time I dared not come to her, to visit my grandson. But she finally pulled herself together and contacted them via social media. I grabbed something delicious and came. But what I saw shocked me: no, the apartment was clean. Modest, but no dirt or spiders.
My grandson was sitting in the kitchen eating some soup. Not soup, not porridge, but some yummy of water, onions and potato residues. I haven’t seen anything like this since early 2000. It was terrible. Turns out there's no money. The son pays some pennies and even constantly gnaws at the daughter-in-law that she spends everything on herself. She's wearing a dress that was fashionable 7 years ago.
I thought a hobby was good, but now I need to change it. Theatre will take a back seat. I would rather spend this money on food and help my daughter-in-law and grandson. The next day I had a conversation with my son. He was trying to make fun of it, spinning around in a frying pan. Lied. He needs to shift his attention from the old family to the new one. Get a car on credit. He asked me for help.
Even started screaming when I found out that I had decided to help his first wife with money. Called me mean. My mother. And in that moment, I knew I had made the right choice. You should have done that from the beginning. My son is a coward and a traitor. He deserves only that kind of treatment. I don't want to know my second daughter-in-law. I'll help you first. Now she's my only daughter. I don't have any more kids.
As my life was going down, I realized I had no one to pass on everything I had, so I decided to find an heir, pretending to be homeless.
Life principles followed by the director of the films “Brother” and “Zhmurki” Alexei Balabanov