I’m going to get married, but I’m used to being alone and I don’t know how to survive with a man in the same apartment. Bashny.Net

A funny post came to us on the Internet. A girl in her thirties seems to have fallen in love and is considering getting married. But here she has cognitive dissonance. The fact is that she is not used to society and prefers to personally dispose of the living space entrusted to her. Oh, honey, will this fit into your slim system? man of your life?



On the one hand, nothing surprising. It's introvert time. Communication is all over the Internet, meetings are minimal and at a distance. Closeness with almost closed eyes. Or, conversely, on camera (you can still make money!). So a young lady who has been used to being alone for most of her life is understandable. A Editorial mission "Site" There's another one. Tell the girl what to expect from a real man. The present is in the sense of living, and not in the form of an avatar on a dating site.

The man of your life She writes this. They say that since the age of 17, only one lives. Before that, with her parents, but she had room And she came out of it only before the wind and ate. And now, in fact, she met in the tinder a man who likes. She doesn’t know how to live in the same apartment with him.



How she will sleep with him in the same bed, how she will walk with a stupid hairstyle, not made-up, in a bumjat stretched sweater and underwear. Can I go about my business in a room where there is someone else? How hang out Together in a rather limited space? I woke up in the morning, he was here to sleep in the evening, he was still there.

And what is it, now you have to make up every day to look beautiful, wear the appropriate clothes, cook him food and all that? What about now? It is impossible to let the winds, and everything else is impossible. Surely. We're all human.. This guy's gonna be here. No, they say, I absolutely do not understand this. She literally writes and wonders what to do.



What can I say? Relationships and love are when people accept each other without any problems, even if someone is blowing the winds. It's naturalThere is no escape from it and just need to understand and accept it. In turn, “to rub” will have not only this lady, but also a man.

The fact is that she can jump out of the tinder exactly the same character, because like always attracted to like. Therefore, there is a chance that the man of your life will be just like you. You sit in different rooms, calmly “let the winds” alone, and when necessary, go out to the kitchen and there, it means that you have to go. tea.



So your life, sweetieIt might not even change at all. And in case an active extroverted macho falls to your knees, I advise you to get this experience to the fullest extent possible. This way you can find answers to many of your questions. You'll see if he's bothered by your natural processes (can you imagine if it's music for his soul?) and if it's comfortable sleeping in a hot embrace in the same bed.

Don’t be afraid that it will “overhange.” Active men have a lot of interests: football, friends, parties, other girls. It's worth a try anyway. If you do not like it, you will continue to live proudly alone. If you like it, you will fight with other bunnies so that only you will get it. You have no idea how much yours will change. conception like a fight.



Seriously, the man is the same. livelyLike you. Perhaps he is worried about a few other things, but sometimes he can be at the most critical moment. Otherwise, if it comes to squeamishness, you should look at a consultation with a psychologist. Men may well seem like goats, but among them definitely come across sane specimens. Honestly.

Be sure to write in the comments what you think about this and whether you were afraid to get close to another person. Do you remember the moment when you started living together and who was the first to blow the breeze? Share what difficulties awaited you. What do you like, what don't? The girl is waiting, let the whole world help her!



The man of your life In the old photos it looks more beautiful and harmless. And when you live with him in a one-room apartment, you sometimes want to nail it. Read our article about what a psychologist can advise single women and whether to listen to him. Thank you for staying with us!