Why do women marry poor men?

Modern relationships between people are no longer what they used to be. Especially marriage. It is probably not necessary to prove and cite statistics to assert that there were fewer divorces. Poverty level Or the man's wealth didn't matter, he just took a back seat.



Even if the young man did not have much money behind his heart, and his capital "sang romances", by a certain age he still found a mate. The level of financial capacity was much lower than it is now, and it was not a priority. So why do some women continue to choose men with holes in their wallets? Is it just romance?

Of course, each such couple has its own beginning, its own history. Life situations can be different for everyone. So we'd like to give you a couple of examples. We hope that after reading them, you will agree with us that judging someone else’s family without having all the facts on hand is at least wrong.

Young-green Kostik and Anya met at school. We were. And then we decided to start dating. Kostya liked Ana very much from the very beginning: good-looking, smart, for a word in your pocket and much more. After school, the institute began, and the couple decided to sign. Nothing special, just stood in the registry office, listened to the woman and went with a few friends to celebrate the case.

The young family did not have enough money. Rental apartment, Chinese noodles as an average meal and study. Anya began to notice that over time she outgrown Kostya as an adult. She, although not as smart and, as the teachers said about her husband “promising”, with the tasks dealt with to the end.



Kostya was always young. Funny jokes once made me bored. The constant distraction, impracticality of the young man began to irritate. Interests have long ceased to be common. I wanted a man and there was a boy next to me.

When the first serious work appeared, Anya immediately began to plow. Kostya also "sabashed" here and there, and it suited him. It all came down to the fact that the breadwinner in the family was a young girl.

But it didn't last long. An interesting colleague came along. A little older, but not significantly. Responsible, serious. Yes, he had problems with appearance and sometimes he could tighten a long “pipe” about his passion for football. But it was all in the background. He beautifully courted, besieged Anya where it was necessary, made plans for the future.



When Anya told her husband, he thought she was joking. Then he was angry, begging, crying. But to live in poverty Anya did not want at all. She knew they would have no future. Divorce, marriage and a new life. Now she has other concerns and other complaints about her man. But she firmly knows that this man will take care of their future children and certainly will not let them starve to death. And funny jokes and charming appearance she can hear and see on TV. Urgant's show will be shown there soon, so don't forget to watch.

Debt Married for the second time Ira came out at the age of 23. With a baby in her arms. The father could not set the right priorities and stayed with his mistress. Well, to hell with him. Now that the right, honest and loving person has been found, all will be well. We will endure any adversity. Raise a daughter and life will be beautiful.

Arthur was an ordinary hard worker. But with an open, honest heart. He knew how to build, paint, make repairs. He could go to the Far East to work, sending the lion’s share of the funds to his wife and child. His friends loved him and told him only good things. Despite the constant lack of time, Arthur had many.



There were plans, dreams and hope for the future. Ira even signed up for hairdressing courses. She wasn’t going to sit around her husband’s neck with a baby all her life. I wanted to help, too. Because I loved her, because Arthur saw in her a loving wife and loved his daughter very much, even if not his own.

But fate can sometimes be ruthless. An accident at work, and Arthur was left disabled. A tragedy not only for one person, but for his whole family. Pain, despair, horror.

After 5 years, Ira and Arthur buy a new apartment. You might ask, how did they ever make ends meet on government payments? We will. Being a good hairdresser is also an art. At first Ira worked alone, then rented a room, then opened several more. Yeah, now she's pulling the family. Now she's mining.



But there wasn't a day when she didn't remember the situation Arthur pulled her out of. Despite everything, they're together. And they certainly don’t see any changes in that regard.

Autumn I'll tell you what. My situation is quite ordinary, although everyone is interested in it. Women have been in my situation for centuries, and I'm quite comfortable with it.

I am a wealthy mature woman. Five years ago, my husband died and left me all his, all our savings. I was more of a muse to him than a loving and faithful wife. And he knew it. We had no children, but he had a daughter from his first marriage. I know her well: a beautiful man, found himself, does not need money.

But I value money. I appreciate life, as well as the joy it gives us all. Being, you know, a grandmother on a bench, even near your own two-storey house - this is not for me. I love quiet peace, but sometimes it gets boring.

Traveling around the world and splashing money on rags and jewelry is also not an option. One day you realize that most of your time is spent on the road. Is it not possible to surround yourself with comfort and not to rush around the world after it? It's easier, really.

That's why I got married again. Don't whisper, he's only 15 years younger than me. Not a young man after college. A stately man, with experience and his views on life. But I like his character. He is also a former soldier, so I feel very comfortable with him. We have security, but the energy of security comes from him.



He's a military man, so I can call his salary, shall we say, small. First of all, compared to my situation, he has no money at all. Others, perhaps, too. What are the salaries in this army? To buy food and go fishing once a month? Please.

And there is nothing wrong with me providing it and even occasionally indulge in expensive purchases. He is also a man, dear women, and he likes comfort and gifts. What did you think? Men have that option, too. And if he's with me right now and I feel like I need him, why not? The world is full of routine and everyday life. Just be happy for us and don’t give in to evil thoughts, thank you!

Situations, as they say, are different. Someone can only dream about the life of another person, while he lives relatively well. If you think about it, would many of us be content? We think opinions will be divided. It's right. You just need to understand someone’s point of view, to understand. And then draw your own conclusions from all this.