What words a self-respecting woman will not say when parting

Breakup time is a difficult period for everyone who goes through this stage in life. Nothing lasts forever. People fall in love, get married, break up. The reasons can be very different. And when adults realize that their paths diverge, it’s time to say goodbye. How do you survive this difficult period and continue to enjoy life?



Often people break up not on the most positive note. Someone offended, changed or does not share the worldview. Because of this, irritability appears, a man and a woman blame each other for all the troubles. In fact, it is a great art to part peacefully. Do not hurt the feelings of the person with whom you were once happy.



To come to terms with the state of things, everyone needs a certain period of time. Someone enough two weeks to let go of the situation and move on, someone can not accept the separation for years. It is important to realize that two people are guilty of separation. When you understand what your mistake was, when you learn from past relationships, then you can move on.



It'll pass. Yeah, you're sick right now. Maybe you want to dig in a blanket and eat candy for a long time. It's normal to get upset. It is not normal to continue a relationship that does not bring joy to partners. Now we need to cry, eat cake and watch melodramas with a happy ending. Instead of thinking about loss, remember what you learned in that relationship. Say “thank you” to the person for the experience, leave all the grievances in the past and take with you only the knowledge that you gained in a relationship with an ex-man.



Psychologists advise to keep a diary in difficult life situations. Being confused in thoughts, a person writes down everything that disturbs him on paper. By re-reading our notes from time to time, we can benefit from these notes ourselves. It’s like reading a book at different times in your life. For the first time, we see everything from one angle, and after a while, through the prism of our experience, we can look at the situation from another angle. It is important to share your experiences with friends and relatives. Sometimes it is better to consult a psychologist who will be able to guide you, to understand what you do not understand now.



No one left you to blame yourself for a broken relationship is not the answer. Give yourself an honest, comprehensive answer. What didn't you like about your ex-partner's behavior that didn't suit your behavior? Sometimes people are just different, and this is a reason to look for happiness separately, with other people. Never think you've been abandoned. That's not true. At some point, you decided you didn't like living like that. Start with that. Start doing what you want.



To blame your ex for your failures and continue to suffer for a while is normal. The sooner you realize it's not your fault, the sooner you can start enjoying your life again. Don’t waste your time digging into the past. Do yoga, dance, climb mountains or career ladder. You will see that there are people who are like you, there are moments that bring you joy.



It was once customary to get married once. This does not mean that people were happy in marriage. You can fall in love 10 times a day, or you can fall in love with one person again and again every day. I wish you to find your happiness and never look back, draw from the past experience and knowledge, seek happiness in the present moment and just live.