How to Attract Positive People in Your Life

Recently, in a conversation with a close friend, I heard the phrase: “Why do I attract people into my life who spoil my mood, make me weak and sad?” The former husband is a narcissist, the colleague constantly sits on his ears with his stories about personal problems. There are so many people in my environment... It's like smearing honey!

Indeed, there are people with whom there is a strong feeling that all juices are squeezed out of you. And if we talk specifically about relationships, many people have met men or women who we thought were fantastic, and they ended up being complete bastards.

However, there are reasons why good and smart girls are attracted. toxicAnd it's time for you to find out. And this concerns the choice of not only a life partner, but also friends and acquaintances.





Have you ever noticed that the people you attract often look like you? And if you surround toxic personalitiesIt's not least your fault.

No one is looking for such people specifically. But the energy that comes from you attracts toxic people against your will. Is there any way to stop it?





How to Change Your Life in a Week Today "Site" Tell us about 6 reasons why you attract toxic people into your life. Useful advice from an experienced psychologist!

1. Too good and comfortable.
   You appreciate that everyone has their own point of view, feelings, and you pride yourself on being so understanding and sympathetic. But in reality, you’re so sympathetic that you often excuse unacceptable behavior or put up with something that’s clearly wrong just to stay “good.” This is a serious problem. Stop being comfortable for everyone!
   
   
   
   
   
   
2. Feeling guilty
   Can't get rid of your guilt? In the environment of each of us there are toxic people who try to cause him to others. They are often so close that at some point in their lives they achieve their goal. These toxic people are capable of causing others deep guilt. This makes it easier for them to dominate. Victims, in their turn, are overwhelmed by the flow of negative emotions, as a result of which they begin to consider themselves useless losers.
   
   
   
   
   
   But the person who feels guilty and the manipulator who causes these feelings are related. Break the circle, stop being provocative! And to do that, you need to look at the situation from the other side, to understand that you have a toxic personality, and all his behavior is manipulation.
   
   
   
   
   
   
3. Low self-esteem
   Sometimes you feel unworthy of love. Of course, you understand that you look good, you have a cool figure, a lot of talent, you can support any interesting conversation, you know languages and men like you. But sometimes paranoid thoughts creep into your head that you are unworthy of love. These past failures pull you into a swamp of doubt, at the bottom of which - low self-esteem, marriage with a parasite and a holed robe of poisonous colors. You know you don't really deserve that, so don't let the defeatist mood take over.
   
   
   
   
   
   
4. Not your people.
   Stop fooling yourself and start a relationship or friendship that is doomed from the start! You see that you and a person have different values, priorities and views on life, and from communicating with him you have cats scratching on your soul - go away, nothing good will come of it. Life is too short to be spent on someone else. Look for those with whom wings grow!
   
   
   
   
   
   
5. You give your all.
   There’s nothing wrong with giving yourself 100% in a relationship, as long as you get the same amount back. When you start to bend too early, adjusting to a man and he doesn't answer, you risk him taking advantage of you.
   
   
   
   

What if you got toxic relatives: turn your back or find a compromise? Maybe it's not them, but you're preventing them from living.

I suggest you find out why it's time to stop talking to toxic relatives.







You are a great listener, generously share your time, easy to communicate with you, you can give a lot, you know how to help. Honesty and understanding are yours. strengthsAnd finally, you believe in people. If this is about you, congratulations, because these qualities often attract toxic people.

You are a good and bright person, so stay that way always, but please love yourself, try to put your desires and feelings first, turn on healthy selfishness, learn to set boundaries, say no to what you don’t like and finally break off relationships that make you sick, painful and unbearable.

No one should ruin your life. Remember that you are alone and you are the greatest treasure.

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