How to Prepare for a New Relationship

Few people manage to immediately find love for life, so almost everyone has faced unsuccessful relationships and breakups. Everyone wants to be happy and is looking for a new relationship. Sometimes it turns into a real vicious circle and a continuous series of broken relationships. Maybe it’s just that you’re not ready for a relationship.



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Editorial "Site" He will tell you how to know that you are not ready for a new relationship. Let's name the 5 main signs.

Starting a new relationship 5 signs that you are not ready

1. You're unhappy.
   If you are looking for a relationship in the hope that it will save you from all problems, then this is fundamentally wrong. How can you build a relationship with another person if you are uncomfortable with yourself? Having a couple, both partners expect to receive some influx of emotions from the other person. Despondency and emptiness are not what people need. Harmony will come only if you are a self-sufficient person with friends, work, hobbies and hobbies, if you have something to do yourself in your free time. Not a single relationship, after all.
   
   Most often, when one fanatically seeks a partner just to not be alone, the relationship initially turns out unhealthy. You become a dead weight for the chosen one, because you want him to solve your problems, heal your wounds. But it doesn't work that way. As a result, the partner will cease to live up to expectations, because he simply will have neither the strength nor the desire to constantly save you.
   
   And in that case, you'll think the man was wrong. But you’re not really ready for a serious relationship. You need to change your life at the root: to start a hobby, to occupy your leisure and learn to find happiness in other things, having stopped fanatically looking for relationships.
   
   
   
   
   
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2. Everything repeats itself.
   If all your relationships are similar, and history repeats itself over and over again, it’s time to think about what you’re doing wrong. Often we lament that these worthy men/women (should be emphasized) are simply transferred, but sad to admit, it is always about ourselves. If from time to time something does not work out, then it is worth to understand yourself. Maybe you are not ready for a serious relationship, so everything is not glued. Or maybe you have some psychological barriers that get in the way. Think about it.
   
   
   
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3. You didn't let go of past relationships.
   This is one of the main reasons that prevent us from building new relationships. Often we look for a new person just to dull memories, but that’s hardly a solution. Do not forget the former, we are looking for a new partner, subconsciously focusing on the same image. But this is initially a failure, because you broke up for a reason. Before looking for a new love, you need to get rid of the past completely. It takes time, sometimes a lot of time, but without it. Look inside yourself, find what is eating you, try to get rid of past grievances. Our mistakes are given to us to learn from them, not to repeat them again.
   
   
   
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4. You built walls around you.
   After betrayal, it is difficult to start trusting again, but without it. If you still don’t want to break down the walls around you, you’re not ready for a relationship. Every person needs trust and emotional return, and if he does not get it, then no relationship will work out. Despite all the resentments and disappointments, still try not to close yourself, because after that it is not so easy to change. After the time you need, slowly begin to tear down the walls and let other people into your world. You will see that it will bear fruit.
   
   
   
   
   
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5. You don't accept yourself.
   If you are willing to give up your interests, principles, and even your innermost being for the sake of another person, it is not a sign of a healthy relationship. Everyone must first love themselves as they are. If you don’t love yourself, how will another person love you? You need to work on your complexes, get rid of them. Don’t pretend to be who you want to be, but who you aren’t. Before you enter into a new relationship, work on yourself. If you want to be sure of yourself, become one, not pretend to be one.
   
   
   
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If you observe at least one of these signs, then the news is disappointing - you are not ready for a new relationship, you still have to work on yourself. After all, it is better to be alone for some time, understand yourself and come to a new relationship ready for them and confident in yourself. This way you will have a strong healthy relationship that can become something more serious than another disappointment. Be happy!

Relationships are complicated, which means that none of us are immune from regrettable mistakes. Earlier we wrote about what mistakes women make in relationships and how to avoid them.

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