Features of the behavior of mother-in-law

Harmonious relations of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are so rare that they seem almost fantastic. It is rare to find a family where each man’s closest women do not try to drag him to their side, but find a compromise.

And today's edition. "Site" It tells the story of a mature woman who most wanted happiness for her son, and therefore could not leave him with the first girl she met. Maybe she can be understood. At least we tried.





Good mother-in-law: It so happened that I met my future daughter-in-law before my son. I bought household chemicals at the supermarket, saw a cheap T-shirt and put it in the basket. But after paying, I realized that the real price of the shirt was almost twice as high. Unpleasant situation, but not extraordinary. However, the money was not in a hurry to return.

On my claims and desire to return the money for the shirt appeared administrator. Her flat, not disfigured by the intellect face, with prickly eyes and problem skin, rose above her broad shoulders from a height of grenadier growth. It seems that when appointing an administrator, it was not about attracting, but rather about scaring away customers.”





“She immediately stated that she should have looked at the price tags better, and that underwear was not accepted back, even if it had been bought only a minute earlier. However, I have seen a lot of such girls, and therefore I did not think to give up. After 15 minutes of mutual insults, the money was returned to me. Logic and reason conquered ignorance and arrogance, so I returned home in high spirits.

I couldn’t help but tell my son this story. I shared it with my friends. And even dictated the phrases with which she put this small person in his place. But when two months later Vanya brought home the girl and called me to meet, and I, wiping my apron, ran out into the corridor, I saw the same administrator with pimple skin and pig eyes.





My son said, ‘Mum, meet me. It's Zina. I grabbed my heart and said, Who did you bring into the house? It's that monster in the back room. Get her out! And I really got sick. I shouted something else, and the girl only silently opened and closed her mouth. It seems that her weak mind did not allow her to fight in foreign territory. They ran to the landing of stairs.

Vanya returned, trusting his beloved taxi driver. When I woke up, I reminded him of a story two months ago. Despite my arguments that this monster is not a couple for him, and the uncouthness and narrow mind of this girl is a real disaster, the son for the first time in many years did not agree. We had a big fight.”





“Since my husband died, Vanya has protected me like a chicken hen. But it was worth getting acquainted with this Zina, and she infected him with her rudeness. My son didn't bring her into the house, but I suspected he was going missing in the evening.

I asked my palmist neighbor for help, but he only looked at my palm for a long time and offered to wait until everything was resolved by itself. But it didn't. And it ended with a wedding.”





As much as Vanya asked, I did not attend the wedding, but I went to the hospital in an ambulance with a hypertensive crisis. My son didn't know, and I didn't tell you, that when I saw doctors in white coats, my blood pressure went up. So she called an ambulance and just let herself be hospitalized.

My first wedding night was in my apartment. I went through the pictures of children and cried, and in the morning I brought some things. The pressure jump stuff wasn't in vain and I really felt bad. Looked right. The young people canceled their wedding trip – Vanya was afraid that I would be gone while they splashed in the sea.”





But then there was a new blow - the son went on a business trip, and that someone looked after a weak mother, left me for my daughter-in-law, they say, he did not find nurses, and you still need to make friends with Zina. There was nothing left but to stay with this girl.

Despite all the fears, Zina didn't poison me the first day or strangle me with a pillow. But she was very caring: she fed pancakes with jam and sour cream, watered the floors in the apartment, walked the dog. She told how she came “from the village to the big city”, how she got a job first as a loader, then as a seller, and later grew to an administrator.





“In two weeks I was fully strengthened and coping on my own, there was no need for Zina’s help. And before the arrival of my son, I asked to visit, they say, I will see what you are there for an apartment, and we will meet Vanya at the same time. Zina was glad that mother-in-law I did, and I didn’t mind...

I came with a bottle of wine to celebrate the reconciliation. She arranged glasses like a host, asked her daughter-in-law to bring the candy I had forgotten in the hallway, and in the meantime put it in her glass of sleeping pills. Drink... And when Zina was drawn to sleep, she kindly helped lay the bed. She promised to wake up when Vanya arrived. Zina dutifully lay down and snored.”





“The doorbell rang soon. It was Kolya’s neighbor, who I had asked in advance to fix the stool. From the offer to start a drink, he certainly did not refuse.

Half an hour later, Kolya fell asleep on a chair. I barely had time to put it next to Zina. And then, quietly grumbled, she stole dirty pants and a T-shirt from her neighbor. From the outside, the picture pleased the eye, but the main thing is that Vanya saw this show. I slammed the door of the apartment and climbed one flight.”





“After a while, the elevator stopped on the right floor. First, Vanya rang the doorbell, and not waiting for the answer, clattered the key. A few minutes later, he jumped onto the staircase. I knew he was too low-key to make scandals. Even now. After a few minutes, he really went home.

I came next, and I caught him at the door. What a surprise he was when he saw an untidy apartment and a mountain of unwashed dishes. What do you want, Zinke has no time for you, and I am weak, I do not have time for anything. I barely made it to the pharmacy.” Vanya only became darker.”





“The administrator used to explain herself, but no one listened to her. "It's all your mommy," gushed Zina. “Did my mother put you in bed with a stranger?” he asked. "Yes, it was," naively clapped Zina's eyelashes.

Evil mother-in-law She smiled with contempt. And all because no one gets away with it. Back in kindergarten, a girl laughed at my faded hat. A month later, she forgot that episode and I didn't. And every night, her own cap was smeared with either glue or porridge or jam. She was scolded, and I stood in the corner and “sympathized.”

It is said that motherly love is blind. And to protect the child even from far-fetched danger, women sometimes go to any tricks or even break the law. At the same time, surprisingly, they think more about themselves, rather than how their child will feel, to whom they unwittingly destroy life.