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How to stop mother-in-law trying to squeeze money out of her husband
All people of different weight categories in the perception of how they need to live and provide for themselves. For some potatoes with herring norms, another red caviar on parmesan serve. It is interesting when these interests suddenly overlap. You can run into it. thanksgivingFor example. Although gratitude should be taken in quotation marks.
A normal person understands that not everyone can be successful. But some people prefer not to notice it at all. I have my request, you have yours. Why do I have to adjust and eat potatoes? Nope! I will continue to indulge in caviar. Here is the story that the editorial board "Site" He wants to tell you.
My husband and I have a small two-bedroom apartment. I got it from my grandmother. At first my parents gave it up, but when I got married, they decided to give it to us. We have two kids, ages 6 and 2. From the moment I went on maternity leave, I worked maybe six months. You need to be with the children, you will not leave them on your parents all the time.
However, they are always happy to take both for the weekend so that my husband and I can have a little rest. And money will always help us, they understand that the husband is now pulling everything on himself. But the mother-in-law behaves quite differently. I’m not against it, just have something to compare.
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She lives alone in a three-room apartment, pays rabidly as for a pensioner money at tariffs and at the same time does not deny herself anything. She has little interest in our lives, but is more concerned about her son throwing her a thousand or two on these communal services in time.
Her husband has repeatedly offered her to get rid of this large apartment, sell, move to one place, and put the difference on deposit. This would cover the costs, the more they would be much less. We're not asking her to come into our position, but she could fully support herself. But no, none.
At one point, as usual, she came to visit (it is not her rules to warn about the arrival: at least a tornado, she will come when she considers it necessary) and began to tell how bad her life is and that she has not paid for a communal house for three months. As far as I remember, my husband gave her money a while ago.
And she didn't care that both granddaughters were sick right now, they needed medication, that I was in soap, because I had to look after both of them and get my husband to feed. She does not care that we also have communal services, that we have a car loan, that we, after all, have our own lives and that we do not eat red caviar with spoons, and we have banal puree and herring for dinner.
Actually, that's what I told her. My mother-in-law was certainly offended. She said I was selfish and hated her, and she didn't do anything wrong. Turned around, left, and then complained to her husband. He hasn't spoken to me in a week. I pouted on him, too, because he took out his mother's bills.
When I ask, what about his daughters, he just grumbles and dismisses. Okay, it'll bite and thaw. But yesterday I saw my mother-in-law in the supermarket, she lives not so far from us. What's in her grocery basket? Croisans, red fish, dor blue cheese and parmesan, a piece of balyk. Against my sausages, milk, eggs, oatmeal and fish potatoes. That's it, guys! Thank you from my mother-in-law.”
From the editorial office, what do you say? Life is one, everyone lives it within their own needs and conscience. We're not judging anyone, but what advice can we give this woman? Should she give her mother-in-law her point of view, or should she ignore it and go on with her life?
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Mother-in-law's gratitude can be different. Like this one in quotation marks. Does it seem to us or does she really not understand what message the daughter-in-law is trying to convey to her? Share the article with others, and then be sure to see this material about the cases in which the future mother-in-law is not happy with the wedding of her son. Thank you for staying with us!
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A normal person understands that not everyone can be successful. But some people prefer not to notice it at all. I have my request, you have yours. Why do I have to adjust and eat potatoes? Nope! I will continue to indulge in caviar. Here is the story that the editorial board "Site" He wants to tell you.
My husband and I have a small two-bedroom apartment. I got it from my grandmother. At first my parents gave it up, but when I got married, they decided to give it to us. We have two kids, ages 6 and 2. From the moment I went on maternity leave, I worked maybe six months. You need to be with the children, you will not leave them on your parents all the time.
However, they are always happy to take both for the weekend so that my husband and I can have a little rest. And money will always help us, they understand that the husband is now pulling everything on himself. But the mother-in-law behaves quite differently. I’m not against it, just have something to compare.
540768
She lives alone in a three-room apartment, pays rabidly as for a pensioner money at tariffs and at the same time does not deny herself anything. She has little interest in our lives, but is more concerned about her son throwing her a thousand or two on these communal services in time.
Her husband has repeatedly offered her to get rid of this large apartment, sell, move to one place, and put the difference on deposit. This would cover the costs, the more they would be much less. We're not asking her to come into our position, but she could fully support herself. But no, none.
At one point, as usual, she came to visit (it is not her rules to warn about the arrival: at least a tornado, she will come when she considers it necessary) and began to tell how bad her life is and that she has not paid for a communal house for three months. As far as I remember, my husband gave her money a while ago.
And she didn't care that both granddaughters were sick right now, they needed medication, that I was in soap, because I had to look after both of them and get my husband to feed. She does not care that we also have communal services, that we have a car loan, that we, after all, have our own lives and that we do not eat red caviar with spoons, and we have banal puree and herring for dinner.
Actually, that's what I told her. My mother-in-law was certainly offended. She said I was selfish and hated her, and she didn't do anything wrong. Turned around, left, and then complained to her husband. He hasn't spoken to me in a week. I pouted on him, too, because he took out his mother's bills.
When I ask, what about his daughters, he just grumbles and dismisses. Okay, it'll bite and thaw. But yesterday I saw my mother-in-law in the supermarket, she lives not so far from us. What's in her grocery basket? Croisans, red fish, dor blue cheese and parmesan, a piece of balyk. Against my sausages, milk, eggs, oatmeal and fish potatoes. That's it, guys! Thank you from my mother-in-law.”
From the editorial office, what do you say? Life is one, everyone lives it within their own needs and conscience. We're not judging anyone, but what advice can we give this woman? Should she give her mother-in-law her point of view, or should she ignore it and go on with her life?
349151
Mother-in-law's gratitude can be different. Like this one in quotation marks. Does it seem to us or does she really not understand what message the daughter-in-law is trying to convey to her? Share the article with others, and then be sure to see this material about the cases in which the future mother-in-law is not happy with the wedding of her son. Thank you for staying with us!
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