How I filed for divorce after a vacation with my mother-in-law at sea

This man decided to divorce After going to the sea with her. If you think that his eyes opened and he saw hot beauties there, and therefore he had an aesthetic collapse that led to an uncontrolled release of testosterone, then this is not true. It's easier and probably sadder.



Letters from Male Subscribers "Site" It doesn't get much. Well, somehow it is not customary among men to bring their problems to people. Except it's not a problem, it's a win. We concluded that the subscriber was bragging. He boasts that he divorced his wife. That's actually what he writes.

My wife and I had a second marriage. My first one was obviously a failure, hers too. We've been living together for over five years. She, as I now understand, needed a man, and after the first divorce, I tried to cope with a clearly collapsed self-esteem. To be honest, I thought I was lucky, but soon my thoughts disappeared.



I'm not local, so I live in my wife's apartment. But besides us, there is also her mother and my mother-in-law. They've got it so well. dialogueWhat happens to me is not what is difficult - it is impossible to wedge into this system. If for the first year or two they still somehow perceived me as a separate person, now I am so integrated into their life that they simply do not notice me.

They do not take into account my opinion a priori and independently decide what we will all eat, how to live, where to work and in what country to rest. It takes too long to talk about all the situations, so I will tell you the last one, which, in fact, led to the divorce. My wife and I are going to the sea. During the holidays, we waited a long time. They bought tickets, I found a place to live. It would seem, only full forward.



I specifically asked my wife not to tell anyone about our plans, because I thought that during the rest, when we were alone, we would discuss our lives, find a compromise. But it wasn't. She told us everything when we had guests. And turned it like this, they say, my mother has not been to the sea for a long time. two-room. She can live in the living room these days.

Mother-in-law, of course, expressed great joy, saying that she agrees to everything and thank you, my dear daughter. So they both basically ruined my plans to be quiet with my wife. Just be alone. Once again, I made sure that no one cares about my wishes. I had to take my mother-in-law with me.



You can imagine what it was like to rest. They both adapted to the wishes of the mother-in-law, since she is already old, it is difficult for her to go to the sea. And if it does, then drag the bowl from my height behind them. In short, all rest It turned out that I was on their errands, doing all their tasks, carrying things and all that.

And so, when they once again loaded me with a dozen tasks, and they fell into the sand, something clicked in my head. After all, I'm an adult and self-sufficient, having quite adequate qualities and requests, with a good salary, was with such a loop around his neck. And he pulled this loop on himself, with his own hands.



Honestly, I didn't want to believe it, but simple-check She proved to me that it really is. Those two women didn't care about me. Everything I say I want to do is broken by their indifference. On the contrary, they come up with alternatives for me. At some point, it made me so angry that I decided to break out of this circle at all costs.

So when we got back from vacation, I told my wife straight away that I was filing for divorce and explained why. It was only after these words that something moved in her, but she didn’t seem to realize that I didn’t really like it. They tried to stop me, because their life was firmly tied to me and that I could leave, it was not in their plans.



And you know what? I'm proud of myself. Because six months after my divorce, I realized that I could afford a lot more than I used to, even though I sometimes had to squeeze my budget. Most men live just like me. Their wives and mothers-in-law rule over them, and they completely forget about themselves and their dreams. Isn't that true?

Since the author of this text (your humble servant) is also a man, I can be in solidarity with the subscriber in the following. Our brother is really under a lot of pressure. social pressure And we're expected to. We must live up to expectations in terms of wealth, income, romance and intelligence. Even though it can be darn hard, we don't complain. Just talking about what it is. What do you think?



Divorce with wife It’s really an extreme measure to which a man goes from complete despair. There's just nothing else you can do. But the opposite happens! Read our article about why a man wants his wife back and what it has to do with it. Thank you for staying with us!