Husband who accidentally overheard his wife on the phone

Some women know firsthand. how to use a man. However, sooner or later all the secret becomes apparent, relationships collapse, and marriages fall apart. But how to survive such a man himself? Especially if he sincerely loved his companion and did not expect betrayal on her part. This sensitive topic is dedicated to our current history.



How to use a man My marriage is just over 6 years old When I met Tamara, she was already divorced. It didn't bother me at all. Like the fact that I didn’t have a serious relationship before.

We met for about six months, after which I proposed to her. Tamara refused to live with my parents. They’re not small, they need their own apartment. At the time, I didn’t earn much to save for my home. But I could afford a rented apartment.



To make money for my home, I decided to go abroad. A friend suggested a verified place where I was helped to settle. He left. He came very rarely and wanted to make his wife happy as soon as possible. It took a year and a half to buy a house. And then they needed money for repairs. He left again.

Then Tamara started hinting that we needed a car. Like a fool, I followed her lead. He left again, plowed like a damned man again. I’ve been living at home for the last couple of months and have already found a job. I thought it would finally settle down.



But something happened that I will never understand. One day I came home earlier than usual and heard my wife talking to a friend on the phone. She was so passionate that she didn't even notice me.

From the words of Tamara, my legs have already hurt. “Lyudka, what children are you?” I'm not going to give birth, at least not for him. I don't love him, have I forgotten? said Tamara in a cheerful voice.

After so many years of family life, hearing this is torture. I stood in the door and couldn’t believe my ears. I did everything for my wife, thought it was about to happen, and we could finally live for ourselves. It turns out my wife found the perfect way to use me.



I became tame: I did everything Tamara could want. Of course, I didn’t pull the cat’s tail and talked to my wife. She started making excuses that I had misunderstood. Like, she meant when we met and she was just looking at me. It's different now.

I don’t know how to take her words now. At first I thought I might have screwed myself up. What if I heard something wrong? And then I asked Tamara, "If that's not true, then can we think about having a baby?" The right moment may never come, time is so fleeting.



In response, my wife looked at me meaningfully and said that she was not ready for children yet. There was something strange in her eyes... At that moment, I realized that the phone conversation was true.

Never in my life have I felt so deceived. Has my wife been manipulating me all these years? How to find the strength to survive a divorce? I can't even think about it...

In this situation, a man can only sympathize and wish patience and strength. Apparently, the wife really just used her husband, playing with his feelings.



The constant demands of money forced the man to work. However, what Tamara was doing at that time, no one knows. She may have cheated on her husband... Do you think it's possible to save a marriage after this?

Boldly shared their thoughts and advice in the comments. If you’ve been in this situation, how did you find a way out? We'll look forward to you!