Everyone thought our marriage was perfect and my wife was a saint, but they just didn’t know the truth.

Betrayal of a wife is a heavy blow for a husband. Your dearest man, sworn to be with you in sorrow and joy, destroys everything you built together. In a moment, your life changes. The ground is coming down. What do we do next? Especially if you have children and a home loan. The hero of our history has found a way out.



Editorial "Site" It tells the story of a man who survived the betrayal of his wife and managed to reconcile with him.

Needless to say, everyone thought our family was perfect. That's how it was up to a point, and then everything went to hell. My wife and I have been married for 14 years. Everything was going well. We took out a loan for the house, made good repairs there. Then we had daughters. We were happy, everyone around us admired how well we got along.



I worked as a cook in a small restaurant. He made a lot of money, even though he was a little less than his wife. But we had enough, so I was in no hurry to change jobs. My wife was always traveling. Some business trips, some conferences. At least I believed that.



And then it's like a cheap show. She left her phone at home. While she was away, he was just bursting with calls. I took a glimpse of who was trying to get her there, and I knew right away. I didn't read much, but I didn't have to. I knew immediately that my wife had someone. The betrayal of his wife knocked the ground out from under his feet.

When she came back for the phone, I wanted to make a scandal, but I just kept quiet. Millions of thoughts swarmed in my head. What do we do now? What about the girls? What about the loan? I realized that I could not afford both the loan and the girls. And since she cheated, she won't see any girls. Then I decided to do something different.



I didn’t have the perfect plan of determination. I decided that I would not say anything to anyone and would continue to pretend that nothing had happened. A month later, I quit my job and accepted a better offer. I liked the new job much less, but paid more money. The difference was put aside to save money for the future. I wanted the girls to get older before their family fell apart.

For four years, my wife had no idea. We recently paid the last payment for the house. We agreed to celebrate with my parents this evening. They loved Sonya. They always said that I had a golden wife, there was nothing to complain about. Yeah, no need.



I decided it was time to stop holding back. At dinner, I told him I knew everything about my wife's lover, that she was cheating on me for four years. He wasn't shy about words. Parents were in no hurry to get involved in the conversation. Sonia started screaming that it was all a lie. When I said I found out, she started blaming me. How, they say, with such a nothingness as I can live.

She then turned around and left the restaurant. My parents and I talked for a long time, I explained everything to them. They were shocked by what was happening. Now I know I shouldn't have had a relationship with them, but then I wanted to make her hurt.



The next day she apologized and begged her to forgive her. She assured me that she would abandon her lover and live as before. I just don't have any more trust in her. I don't think I'll ever forgive her. Would you forgive me?



Not everyone can forgive treason. The hero of our history could not, and we cannot blame him for it. In general, we believe that you can not evaluate the feelings of another person and condemn his actions. As the saying goes, before you judge someone, take their shoes and walk their way. Perhaps this man made some mistakes, somewhere he was hot and unconstrained, somewhere he lied, but he did what he thought was right.

It's just his way of coping with his wife's betrayal and securing a stable future. We don't see anything terrible about it. Do you think he did the right thing?