How to shave off a daughter-in-law who complains about her son Bashny.Net

“My son had a birthday at the end of May. The whole family gathered, everyone congratulated and toasted. And so the line came to the daughter-in-law. She gets up and says, "I'm not lucky with your son," - I only managed to open my mouth with surprise. What can I say? The spoiled wife completely lost her conscience, climbed out on her son’s head and hung her legs, says the outraged Vera Arkadyevna.



“Vova married 4 years ago, they recently had a son.” I never got into their family life. My daughter-in-law lived in our house for a year before the wedding. She behaved decently, seemed to me and my husband a very decent girl. She, like Vovka, is a workaholic. And at the time of their acquaintance, the son just got a promotion, became the boss. Naturally, the work increased and Vova began to come home later.



Alina owns a small chain of shops. So they were just sleeping at home. Six months passed, my son was not going to get married, and my husband and I did not rush him. Alina came home from work, I was home alone. We sat down to drink tea, and Alina asked me why my son did not propose to her. I said what I thought. Said it was his own business and that he should want to make the move.



And then Alina got mad, began to talk about Vov a lot of unpleasant things, my hair stood on end. I just told her that in my presence, my daughter-in-law would never say that about Vov again. The next day, Alina apologized. About what happened, I did not tell my son or husband, he is hot-tempered, I would immediately put the girl out the door. And then Vova decided to propose, they began to live separately and plan a wedding. The daughter-in-law's parents are good, we got along. And everything seemed to be fine. And the problems in their young family began since Alina became pregnant. Her mood changed every half hour.



Vova did not know what to do, called me, told me that Alina was not satisfied with everything. She'd have a crush on her son when he came home from work. I told him to suffer. It is clear that it is not easy to cope with the baby, he takes all the strength from the mother, it will pass. Two months later, the daughter-in-law allowed her to come to babysit her grandson. She went to work, asked me to babysit. Of course I'm happy. Alina left a list of everything to do and what to feed the child, but always left dissatisfied. She didn’t make contact, came home from work, thanked me and silently closed the door behind me. I did not take offense at her, I decided to give all my attention to my grandson.”



But recently at the birthday of Vova Alina in front of everyone said that she was unlucky with her husband. He is selfish and only thinks about his work. It was all unpleasant, the guests pretended not to hear anything, and began to rattle forks on plates.



The couple went to rest on the sea, meanwhile, we looked after the grandson. And during family dinners, Alina is always unhappy with something and criticizes Vova. I once asked him why he tolerated all this. And Vova said that the daughter-in-law will take the child and not let him see. That's what she says in every fight.



During these years of marriage, Vova slowly became darker. He stopped going on business trips, because Alina threw tantrums, they say that he goes to work and travels together, and she at this time with the child should sit. Then Vova refused a new position. To spend more time with your family. He said he was tired of everything, but he was afraid of losing his child. How can you call him a hen-heeled man if his wife is always blackmailing a child? And how do you even act in such a situation? ?



The situation that occurred with the son of Vera Arkadyevna requires a competent decision. This will help you find a family psychologist. Only a specialist can tell you how to act in such a difficult life situation, so as not to harm the child's psyche and, if possible, save a disintegrating marriage. A spoiled wife must begin to reckon with her husband if she wants to save the marriage. Spouses need to remember how it all began, why they decided to connect life with each other and why everything went so far.