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For thirty years I have lived with my husband, we can be silent all day like fish.
Live on 30 years togetherAs a rule, spouses rarely decide to divorce. Especially when it comes to people aged 50-60 years. But there are exceptions to every rule, and that’s what our story is about today. Whether the desired divorce will bring happiness, read further in the article.
30 years together I got married when I was just 20 and my young man was 26. Young and green, I didn't think about the future and lived in the moment. My husband and I have been together for 30 years, but unfortunately I can’t say I was happy all these years.
Our children have grown up and are living with their families. My life over the past 10 years has turned into something terrible. We hardly ever talk to Gena: everyone is on their own. It happens that we literally do not even say a word to each other in a day. I silently cook breakfast, he eats and goes on watching TV.
I've been thinking about a divorce for a long time, but my friends were twirling my head. They say that they are old, you can not divorce at this age, meet old age alone. I really don’t know what it’s like to live alone. My husband was always with me, and with him I stood on my feet. And now what...
I used to try talking to Gena to make things right. But he only joked and did not want to do anything for our common good. Eventually I started to get annoyed by everything he did and didn't do. There was no desire to be with him.
I think I should have filed for divorce a long time ago. But I decided only now, as a 50-year-old woman. The children accepted my unexpected statement with understanding and respect. And Gena... He didn't even seem to care.
It’s been 30 years since the divorce, and I’m proud to have decided. My life was divided into before and after. I began to live only for myself, noticing the little things that make me happier. Everything was filled with colors and sounded new.
Moreover, there was inspiration for creativity! For example, I plunged my head into baking. And the other day I finished knitting my grandson sweaters! By the way, now I come to my relatives more often, there was despondency and apathy.
I think it's never too late to start over. This is a new phase in my life and I will live it in the best way possible. Never before have I been so sure that I did the right thing.
I don't miss my husband at all, but we call sometimes. Ironically, he's more interested in my life now than when we lived under the same roof. What does it say? What we have, we do not keep, when we lose, we cry.
Unfortunately, so many women unhappy in marriage do not dare to divorce. After living with one person for a decent number of years, you think that there is no life without him. But it's not!
People choose to tolerate rather than at least try to live differently. Of course, you need to take all your will into your fist and take the first step. And the older a person gets, the more difficult this process happens.
Let today’s story inspire our readers and become an example of a story with a happy ending. Remember that age should not be a barrier to true happiness.
30 years together I got married when I was just 20 and my young man was 26. Young and green, I didn't think about the future and lived in the moment. My husband and I have been together for 30 years, but unfortunately I can’t say I was happy all these years.
Our children have grown up and are living with their families. My life over the past 10 years has turned into something terrible. We hardly ever talk to Gena: everyone is on their own. It happens that we literally do not even say a word to each other in a day. I silently cook breakfast, he eats and goes on watching TV.
I've been thinking about a divorce for a long time, but my friends were twirling my head. They say that they are old, you can not divorce at this age, meet old age alone. I really don’t know what it’s like to live alone. My husband was always with me, and with him I stood on my feet. And now what...
I used to try talking to Gena to make things right. But he only joked and did not want to do anything for our common good. Eventually I started to get annoyed by everything he did and didn't do. There was no desire to be with him.
I think I should have filed for divorce a long time ago. But I decided only now, as a 50-year-old woman. The children accepted my unexpected statement with understanding and respect. And Gena... He didn't even seem to care.
It’s been 30 years since the divorce, and I’m proud to have decided. My life was divided into before and after. I began to live only for myself, noticing the little things that make me happier. Everything was filled with colors and sounded new.
Moreover, there was inspiration for creativity! For example, I plunged my head into baking. And the other day I finished knitting my grandson sweaters! By the way, now I come to my relatives more often, there was despondency and apathy.
I think it's never too late to start over. This is a new phase in my life and I will live it in the best way possible. Never before have I been so sure that I did the right thing.
I don't miss my husband at all, but we call sometimes. Ironically, he's more interested in my life now than when we lived under the same roof. What does it say? What we have, we do not keep, when we lose, we cry.
Unfortunately, so many women unhappy in marriage do not dare to divorce. After living with one person for a decent number of years, you think that there is no life without him. But it's not!
People choose to tolerate rather than at least try to live differently. Of course, you need to take all your will into your fist and take the first step. And the older a person gets, the more difficult this process happens.
Let today’s story inspire our readers and become an example of a story with a happy ending. Remember that age should not be a barrier to true happiness.
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