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How to behave if the wife irritates the beloved notation
You won’t believe it, but there are times when jealous Breaks the plans not only for her husband, but also for some young people. This situation is especially intriguing when you look at it through the eyes of a young girl with remarkable ambitions.
To our editorial office. "Site" I received another letter with interesting content. Writes a young woman 23 years old, who shares her thoughts and experiences because of the rival, who is older than her, but still married to the man of her dreams. As you understand, we cannot give our value judgment here, but we would very much like to read your opinion on this sensitive subject.
My situation probably looks almost anecdotal. I am a young, pretty girl of 23 years. I have been in a relationship, if I may say so, for exactly one year. My husband is over 10 years older than me and has a wife.
Well, his wife is very jealous. Our meetings with him are rare, under the cover of a real secret: neither my friends nor friends have even heard of my man. There can be no talk of telephone conversations. Just social media and that, from the backup phone. I feel like a real spy on a mission.
He got married when he was 32 years old. And that, not because of great love, but only because of what age obliged. Now they have a daughter, and I’m fine with that.
I understand that he is jealous of the one he doesn’t even like, but she is acting inappropriately: checking the pockets of his clothes, mobile, tablet. Honestly, I would have broken up long ago with this attitude towards myself. Even if there were feelings!
By the way, six months ago, he had already filed for divorce, but only he took it away a few days later. He said he couldn’t stand the fact that his wife would take his daughter, because he loves her very much. I like that my man is a good father, it makes him even closer to me in character. I also love children and dream about my own.
My husband always says he regrets getting married so early. Early by his standards. Now he understands that. He also says that our meeting was fateful for him, and I can see it myself. Reciprocity is a trait that is inherent in both his and my zodiac sign. You can laugh, but I believe in these things.
There's only one thing that bothers me about this. Why is he courageous and strong with me, without fear or impressionability, but when he remembers his wife, his expression changes at the same moment? He's getting kind of depressed, nervous. In these moments, he becomes a stranger to me, no matter how much I drive these thoughts away from me.
I found his wife online. Miniature woman, not the first, shall we say, freshness. In almost every picture there is a child. He doesn’t wear clothes, he doesn’t wear luxurious things. A typical woman without a zest, which can be found at the entrance of any grocery store. What did he find in her, because he could look for something better in his time?
I'll predict that you'll have some nerds and pranksters who in a few seconds will say that my man is either rich or my boss or teacher. Well, nothing like that. Financially, of course, he is not offended, but you can not call him a “daddy”. We met him by accident, on the street, just like in a book.
It was summer, it was raining. I was going about my business, and he was in the car, offered a ride. I refused, so he parked the car, got out and took off his jacket, offering me to cover myself with water drops and splashes. Word for word, I realized that this is my man in all respects: funny, kind, internally strong.
Although I understand that at my age I can get the attention of many young people without too much stress, I do not have such an interest. I just think about him and I can't stop. What should I do, at least help with advice? I hope for understanding, thank you and good luck to all of you.
To our editorial office. "Site" I received another letter with interesting content. Writes a young woman 23 years old, who shares her thoughts and experiences because of the rival, who is older than her, but still married to the man of her dreams. As you understand, we cannot give our value judgment here, but we would very much like to read your opinion on this sensitive subject.
My situation probably looks almost anecdotal. I am a young, pretty girl of 23 years. I have been in a relationship, if I may say so, for exactly one year. My husband is over 10 years older than me and has a wife.
Well, his wife is very jealous. Our meetings with him are rare, under the cover of a real secret: neither my friends nor friends have even heard of my man. There can be no talk of telephone conversations. Just social media and that, from the backup phone. I feel like a real spy on a mission.
He got married when he was 32 years old. And that, not because of great love, but only because of what age obliged. Now they have a daughter, and I’m fine with that.
I understand that he is jealous of the one he doesn’t even like, but she is acting inappropriately: checking the pockets of his clothes, mobile, tablet. Honestly, I would have broken up long ago with this attitude towards myself. Even if there were feelings!
By the way, six months ago, he had already filed for divorce, but only he took it away a few days later. He said he couldn’t stand the fact that his wife would take his daughter, because he loves her very much. I like that my man is a good father, it makes him even closer to me in character. I also love children and dream about my own.
My husband always says he regrets getting married so early. Early by his standards. Now he understands that. He also says that our meeting was fateful for him, and I can see it myself. Reciprocity is a trait that is inherent in both his and my zodiac sign. You can laugh, but I believe in these things.
There's only one thing that bothers me about this. Why is he courageous and strong with me, without fear or impressionability, but when he remembers his wife, his expression changes at the same moment? He's getting kind of depressed, nervous. In these moments, he becomes a stranger to me, no matter how much I drive these thoughts away from me.
I found his wife online. Miniature woman, not the first, shall we say, freshness. In almost every picture there is a child. He doesn’t wear clothes, he doesn’t wear luxurious things. A typical woman without a zest, which can be found at the entrance of any grocery store. What did he find in her, because he could look for something better in his time?
I'll predict that you'll have some nerds and pranksters who in a few seconds will say that my man is either rich or my boss or teacher. Well, nothing like that. Financially, of course, he is not offended, but you can not call him a “daddy”. We met him by accident, on the street, just like in a book.
It was summer, it was raining. I was going about my business, and he was in the car, offered a ride. I refused, so he parked the car, got out and took off his jacket, offering me to cover myself with water drops and splashes. Word for word, I realized that this is my man in all respects: funny, kind, internally strong.
Although I understand that at my age I can get the attention of many young people without too much stress, I do not have such an interest. I just think about him and I can't stop. What should I do, at least help with advice? I hope for understanding, thank you and good luck to all of you.
