Why women refuse to attend corporate events

Experienced fashionistas usually think in advance, How to dress up for a corporate party. For women, it becomes a ritual. You need to come up with not only an outfit and choose shoes for it, but also make a new hairstyle and a bright manicure.



I confess that I take such serious preparations quite cool. But, of course, I can understand the desire of a woman to please her beloved! Is it really worth spending fabulous money to show off in front of colleagues? The heroine of today’s history just asked this very controversial question. And what came of it, read on.

I work in a women's team, where show off in front of each other - the norm. Every new outfit of my colleagues is discussed loudly and pathetically. And I'm honestly not one of those women who likes everyone's attention and constant chatter.

I decided not to go to last New Year’s party. Then I just didn’t have the money to buy myself a dress and be dressed up. Maybe it was my insecurity or just my unwillingness to be a subject of discussion. “Family Circumstances,” I had to lie to comment on my absence.



My colleagues were upset, and I promised that I would definitely come next year. This time I bought a suitable outfit in advance and thought about how to save on hairstyle and other tinsel. I don’t understand the point of preparing so much. The girls from the department sign up for beauty salons and spend hours discussing who will come in what.

A colleague came up to me the other day and asked me what my leg size was. I didn’t immediately understand what this strange question was about. But Lisa wouldn't even say to me, 'I remember you had these suede blue shoes. Can you let me wear it? Then she began to talk about how my shoes would fit her dress perfectly. And I was just standing in shock.



What kind of news is that? I can only give my own things to my sister. So I tactfully refused my colleague. Maybe not everyone will understand me, but it seems to me that lending clothes to non-close people is somehow strange. In general, I am quite selfish. Anyway, Lisa's gone, but there's a sludge left. I thought she was even offended by me.



In our group, new clothes are taken very seriously. Moreover, every young lady considers it her duty to comment on the novelty, and sometimes even try it on! I remember coming in in the fall in a brand new coat. Everyone wanted to see how it would sit on them. And then I heard a lot of advice on how and what is best to combine it with.

Removing a bunch of other people's hair from my coat made me feel really ugly. She went home, inhaling the tart perfume of one of her colleagues. Maybe we should be tougher in such situations. It's kind of a small thing.



In general, every day the desire to go to corporate less and less. I have already signed up for a haircut... I think women take these things too seriously. Maybe I'm the wrong one? ?

From the editorial office, the female soul asks for a holiday! And for some it is in this fussy preparation for some event. The tastes and preferences here can be drastically different, and that’s normal. It’s great to be able to dress as you like on a corporate party. Do not worry that someone will not appreciate your outfit. The main thing is that you're happy!



Tell me in the comments, how important is the whole process of preparing for the holiday? For example, how do you usually dress, and is it okay for you to wear the same dress twice in a row? We look forward to your comments!