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Proven truth that a husband loves his wife as he treats his mother
What to do if relatives prevent a young family from living quietly and constantly tire of their visits? What is the solution to a situation where two dear women do not get along? When should you take the side of your wife and not your mother?
All these questions you can find the answer in the story of our reader, which she decided to share with the world. Who knows, perhaps her bitter experience will help you to solve long-standing family conflicts.
My ex-husband’s parents never treated me with respect. They thought I wasn't good enough for their son. But if his father was still trying to hide his dislike, his mother openly stated that my husband could find a more profitable party.
Of course, my husband tried to stand up for me and defended his choice. But when the former mother-in-law took out the main trump card from the sleeve (remembered that we live in her apartment), the husband immediately subsided and backed off.
It is worth noting that even though we lived in her apartment, she received money for it. Yeah, his mother rented us a place at a lower price than any other landlord. But in this apartment lived not strangers, but her own son! It would be strange, at least, to ask us to pay more, given that. In addition, she herself offered us this housing option after learning that I am three months pregnant.
The first two years after the birth of a child, the mother-in-law did not often throw scandals. At that time, she could not rejoice with her grandson, and therefore her hatred for me calmed down a little. But it was just the calm before the storm. When our son Nazar was 3 years old, the mother-in-law decided that from now on she must take more part in his upbringing. Because we, she said, cannot raise a worthy member of society on our own.
The relationship with her husband began to deteriorate gradually, as he was completely in agreement with his mother.
She began to come to our house more and more uninvited. And to any objection, she only replied that she had the right to do so, because it was her home after all. And one day she took Nazarchik to her house without warning and told him that he had better live with her for a while, and we could visit him at any time. Then I decided that the old woman was completely out of her mind, which, in fact, I told her so directly.
The husband, of course, once again sided with his mother. And that was the last straw for me. I will not allow anyone to take my own son from me!
In the end, I had no choice but to file for divorce. That's what I did. And soon after that, she took her son and moved to her mother.
It has been two years since the whole story. During this time, we resumed relations with our ex-husband. He realized that he was wrong and did not want to leave his son. So it was easy for him to choose who to talk to, me or his mother.
All these questions you can find the answer in the story of our reader, which she decided to share with the world. Who knows, perhaps her bitter experience will help you to solve long-standing family conflicts.
My ex-husband’s parents never treated me with respect. They thought I wasn't good enough for their son. But if his father was still trying to hide his dislike, his mother openly stated that my husband could find a more profitable party.
Of course, my husband tried to stand up for me and defended his choice. But when the former mother-in-law took out the main trump card from the sleeve (remembered that we live in her apartment), the husband immediately subsided and backed off.
It is worth noting that even though we lived in her apartment, she received money for it. Yeah, his mother rented us a place at a lower price than any other landlord. But in this apartment lived not strangers, but her own son! It would be strange, at least, to ask us to pay more, given that. In addition, she herself offered us this housing option after learning that I am three months pregnant.
The first two years after the birth of a child, the mother-in-law did not often throw scandals. At that time, she could not rejoice with her grandson, and therefore her hatred for me calmed down a little. But it was just the calm before the storm. When our son Nazar was 3 years old, the mother-in-law decided that from now on she must take more part in his upbringing. Because we, she said, cannot raise a worthy member of society on our own.
The relationship with her husband began to deteriorate gradually, as he was completely in agreement with his mother.
She began to come to our house more and more uninvited. And to any objection, she only replied that she had the right to do so, because it was her home after all. And one day she took Nazarchik to her house without warning and told him that he had better live with her for a while, and we could visit him at any time. Then I decided that the old woman was completely out of her mind, which, in fact, I told her so directly.
The husband, of course, once again sided with his mother. And that was the last straw for me. I will not allow anyone to take my own son from me!
In the end, I had no choice but to file for divorce. That's what I did. And soon after that, she took her son and moved to her mother.
It has been two years since the whole story. During this time, we resumed relations with our ex-husband. He realized that he was wrong and did not want to leave his son. So it was easy for him to choose who to talk to, me or his mother.