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The bitter truth that was revealed to me when my husband left the family for the young
After a divorce, every woman wonders what will happen. husbandless. This is especially true if the reason for the breakup was the betrayal of a man. Questions arise as to why this happened and whether the main reason lies in the woman herself.
© Freepik Today editorial office "Site" Share the story of Katie Mitchell, a journalist who survived Divorce after 13 years of family life. What the woman realized and what conclusions she made, read further in our article.
Life without her husband Katie recalls the last months of her marriage as very hectic. The relationship with her husband was based on constant suspicions and excuses. However, at some point, the woman simply saw the correspondence of the man with his mistress. He told her that he would sacrifice everything to be with her.
Katie's world collapsed. But she had no choice but to accept her new life as it is. The husband kept the promise he made to his new wife. Cozy house, family dinners, traveling with children and everything that connected the spouses came to an end. And all for a young girl of 24 years.
© Freepik After what happened, Katie could not recover for a long time. One day, during dinner with her friends, she told them everything. In response, the woman heard words of consolation and exclamations of surprise. Friends did not understand how this is even possible, because Katie looks great and cooks well. She gave her husband two babies, and after pregnancy quickly came into shape!
However, tears poured in a stream. She will say later that she is grateful to her friends for their support. But everything they said revealed only those sides that seemed to them to win. Katie must have had something that no one knows. A sense of emptiness and uncertainty put her in.
© Freepik The last personal dialogue with her husband put everything in its place. “I thought you were the answer to all my questions. But with her, I realized that my reality could become much broader. Those clear answers for me, with which I lived all these years, no longer please me.
At 39 years old, Katie looked great. Yes, her belly will no longer be as firm as it was before pregnancy. But is it just the appearance and seductiveness of a young girl? Katie began to analyze her married life. Was she doing something wrong, or was she just not paying enough attention to her husband?
Reflection led a woman to think about her future life. Will she be able to open up to someone again? But it's too early to think about that. It took several months to red tape with documents. A couple of weeks after the official divorce, Katie found out about the engagement of her ex-husband.
A new phase in Katie’s life has begun. On weekends, the children were taken by their husband and his new companion. She was present at all the family nights. She felt like she was in a “competition” that had already been lost. Friends kept cheering her on, but it didn’t help.
One day a friend of Katie’s told her something that was so lacking before: “The other person’s choices don’t define you.” What happened should not be about you or your decisions.”
After a while, Katie stopped comparing herself to others and looking for flaws. The pain began to recede, and the woman realized that she had the right to be weak and defenseless. She may feel bad and be in a bad mood. This is normal for all of us.
But most importantly, Katie has embraced all her imperfections. What happened revealed other facets of her character and paved the way for a new, better life. Now the woman realizes that she no longer depends on the opinions of other people, and is ready to move forward.
It is said that time heals and helps to cope with any life trials. But it seems to me that first of all it gives an opportunity to think. Alone with himself and his thoughts, sooner or later a person will answer the questions tormenting him and dot all the "i".
© Freepik Of course, someone gives it easier, and someone with a head immersed in introspection. One way or another, we realize that life. She's just gonna be different now.
Tell me in the comments, do you know the story of Katie? You may have experienced this problem and share your experience with us.
© Freepik Today editorial office "Site" Share the story of Katie Mitchell, a journalist who survived Divorce after 13 years of family life. What the woman realized and what conclusions she made, read further in our article.
Life without her husband Katie recalls the last months of her marriage as very hectic. The relationship with her husband was based on constant suspicions and excuses. However, at some point, the woman simply saw the correspondence of the man with his mistress. He told her that he would sacrifice everything to be with her.
Katie's world collapsed. But she had no choice but to accept her new life as it is. The husband kept the promise he made to his new wife. Cozy house, family dinners, traveling with children and everything that connected the spouses came to an end. And all for a young girl of 24 years.
© Freepik After what happened, Katie could not recover for a long time. One day, during dinner with her friends, she told them everything. In response, the woman heard words of consolation and exclamations of surprise. Friends did not understand how this is even possible, because Katie looks great and cooks well. She gave her husband two babies, and after pregnancy quickly came into shape!
However, tears poured in a stream. She will say later that she is grateful to her friends for their support. But everything they said revealed only those sides that seemed to them to win. Katie must have had something that no one knows. A sense of emptiness and uncertainty put her in.
© Freepik The last personal dialogue with her husband put everything in its place. “I thought you were the answer to all my questions. But with her, I realized that my reality could become much broader. Those clear answers for me, with which I lived all these years, no longer please me.
At 39 years old, Katie looked great. Yes, her belly will no longer be as firm as it was before pregnancy. But is it just the appearance and seductiveness of a young girl? Katie began to analyze her married life. Was she doing something wrong, or was she just not paying enough attention to her husband?
Reflection led a woman to think about her future life. Will she be able to open up to someone again? But it's too early to think about that. It took several months to red tape with documents. A couple of weeks after the official divorce, Katie found out about the engagement of her ex-husband.
A new phase in Katie’s life has begun. On weekends, the children were taken by their husband and his new companion. She was present at all the family nights. She felt like she was in a “competition” that had already been lost. Friends kept cheering her on, but it didn’t help.
One day a friend of Katie’s told her something that was so lacking before: “The other person’s choices don’t define you.” What happened should not be about you or your decisions.”
After a while, Katie stopped comparing herself to others and looking for flaws. The pain began to recede, and the woman realized that she had the right to be weak and defenseless. She may feel bad and be in a bad mood. This is normal for all of us.
But most importantly, Katie has embraced all her imperfections. What happened revealed other facets of her character and paved the way for a new, better life. Now the woman realizes that she no longer depends on the opinions of other people, and is ready to move forward.
It is said that time heals and helps to cope with any life trials. But it seems to me that first of all it gives an opportunity to think. Alone with himself and his thoughts, sooner or later a person will answer the questions tormenting him and dot all the "i".
© Freepik Of course, someone gives it easier, and someone with a head immersed in introspection. One way or another, we realize that life. She's just gonna be different now.
Tell me in the comments, do you know the story of Katie? You may have experienced this problem and share your experience with us.
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