Letter to unscrupulous relatives who did not congratulate on their birthday

How to build a house - so I, but how to live in a house - so everything! However, everyone tries to live according to his own mind and be sure to eat chocolate. In the family, too, someone is a favorite, and someone Cinderella. Duties of family members They are not always distributed fairly. And the fairy tale about Cinderella, when it comes to duties, everyone successfully forgets.



And we have a similar story. There's something in common that kind of hints. We're in the newsroom. "Site" We decided it was worth sharing with you. There are a lot of people, opinions too, and we wonder if you will be on our side Cinderella. Or is her decision not entirely fair?

We didn’t live richly, the family is quite large. Dad and mom, me and two sisters. For everything, we had a two-bedroom apartment, so we would fit in. As I got older, I came to a disappointing conclusion: I should not expect some dowry and the best option would be to arrange my life independently.



Since I am the oldest of the daughters, I went to the “reconnaissance” first. Immediately after school, the university moved to the hostel, worked part-time. I tried to provide for myself immediately. Then work, promotion. It's been ten years. I rent an apartment, help my parents, try to buy clothes for my sisters.

I bought both of them phones, they're already students. I try to support my family and my income is stable. It so happened that the apartment was rented in an area near our aunt, my mother's sister. She's a pretty introverted woman, she's a character, she hasn't talked to us much.



Mine didn't like her very much either, because she was quite specific in her communication, but I started visiting her. In recent years, she felt bad and almost never went outside. She never built a family and had no one to look after her. In general, once or twice a week ran to her, brought groceries, paid bills, cleaned. This went on for years.

Not so long ago she died and, as it turned out, left a will in which she rewrote the apartment for me. To be honest, it was a surprise to me, because I did not expect anything like that, and my aunt and I never talked about it. However, it can be understood, because of all our family, they did not communicate with anyone – only with me.



When my sisters found out, they were upset. Even more amazingly, my mother was on their side. Well, at least Dad won't interfere. They say that you can already provide for yourself, you have everything under control. But I honestly don’t share their enthusiasm. A two-bedroom apartment falls into my hands, why should I give it up?

I plan to move there soon, because with my boyfriend decided to have a small one. Doing this in your apartment is much calmer than in a rented one. And then — all these years for the aunt no one looked, but now her large two-bedroom apartment we have to share equally.



Today is my birthday and none of my family called me and congratulated me. I was offended: I exchanged my apartment for my family. That's what they say, not me. I don’t think they should be invited to the wedding either. That's how Cinderella turned out. My aunt warned me that at twelve the carriage would turn into a pumpkin and the horses into mice. I am grateful for your continued assistance.”

Editorial Duties of family members It is usually not accepted to regulate - sooner or later everyone stumbles on a primitive division. It is important to remain human in any situation. Be sure to share your opinion on this case - what do you think is the truth on whose side?



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