What did a man get when he said on a date that he was not expecting a serious relationship? Bashny.Net

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© Depositphotos Some people are unaware of the importance of honesty in relationships. And many are simply afraid to be sincere and openly tell others about their true desires. A vivid example of this is the hero of our history today.

Since I got divorced, my personal life has not worked out. On the advice of a friend, I decided to go to a psychologist to help me understand what was wrong. And, to my surprise, together we quickly found the cause of my former bad luck in matters of the heart.



I used to act like most men: I tried to pretend that I needed a serious relationship, when in fact I was just looking for a pleasant communication. The problem, of course, lay on the surface, but for some reason I myself could not understand it. I always felt that by telling the truth about my intentions, I would just scare all women away.



But the psychologist helped me realize that the only right decision to break the vicious cycle of unsuccessful dates is to openly state the level at which I am ready to maintain a relationship with a woman on the first meeting with her. It was extremely difficult to start with such serious words. At first I was very embarrassed and felt guilty. Of course, the girls understood how embarrassing I was and responded negatively.



© Depositphotos But over time I realized that I do not need to be ashamed of the truth. And so it became much easier to meet women. In the end, I was able to find their understanding. Moreover, it turned out that many girls faced a similar problem. Some even thanked me for being the first person to talk about it.



After two years of such quick dates, I managed to find my soul mate. It’s funny that when I met her, I, as well as others, immediately reported that I was not looking for a long-term connection. And even though neither she nor I wanted to burden each other with any obligations, we managed to fall in love and even build a family.



© Depositphotos We now have two wonderful children and we are incredibly happy in our marriage. Who would have thought that an honest admission of not wanting to start a family would eventually help me do that? ?