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Boring wife and boring husband, or when in a relationship BORING
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In the world many people boredom from his studies, work, relationships and life in General. Attempts to dispel melancholy novelty usually bring temporary results, even if at first it seems that the idea to change one for the other should solve the problem.
Boring wife changed to joyful lovers, from boring men run down to the witty, and hot guys, boring work is left in the name of "realize their destiny" in their own business (certainly an interesting and "changing the world"), another study replaces the previous one, glimpses of people, events and habitats, but the boredom returned.
If it turns out to keep the interest and positive emotions to the important aspects of your life, then fine,but what if not?
Let's understand:
In the history of mankind created many great literary works, most of which is stored in the largest libraries in the world. Access paper, and sometimes the handwritten variants of rare books is of great interest to connoisseurs of the art form, but what happens if you give to the library year-old child?
How long he will be able to occupy yourself with a book of Plato without pictures or treatises of Avicenna? How to get the joy from books, if you still do not know how to read? Perhaps to chew on it, tear out the pages, throw and see how far it can fly. And if that is denied, then how can we not bored, what to do with it?
Don't you think that in life so try to enjoy those activities for which we have no "qualification"because not Mature enough.
Of course, the relationship is boring and bad, if ambitions are high, and qualities not appropriate.
If you continue the book analogy, is that like books about space, and you forever make to study botany, because it's important, clearer and "everybody does it". Or one person loves to read fiction, the second is scientific, and instead give each other the word, share the reading, and to hear about what you do not know, start to prove to each other that serious scientific/artistic prettier.
If you do not take into account the differences between each other in relationships and Outlook on life,it's not only boredom, but also to the hostility to war can be reached.
Unfortunately, sometimes people are not acquainted with their inner world before meeting with the other partner is also not really learned, connected and seem to be living together, but over time you realize that the common themes are not available, and the desire to listen and hear, to be honest, also. Single motorcycles and rock concerts became interested, the second in the Seminary went to stay with a pair of diametrically opposed interests is not so simple.
Favorite book can be one for two, but if you get stuck on it and cease to develop in other directions, one day can become boring.
Read and reread any works can be reused, but when all the jokes memorized, all the phrases are familiar, the ending is known,a better book to put on the shelf and find another to again was interesting, deep and fresh for two.
Often we do not take timely measures to strengthen the relationship and try to get a result, without having invested anything. Anyway, focus only on one aspect of life, trying to close it all her needs, but it's a dead end road. If the work is already loved, but now no longer, the family had everything perfectly, and then collapsed, life was good and became bad, then maybe it's time to turn the page and move on to another story?
Or close with gratitude that nurtured, nourished, forced many to rethink and move on, to open a new book?
It seems to me that in relationships with ourselves, loved ones and the world becomes boring when the potential and degree of implementation vary greatly. But between ambition and achievement are qualities and skills. Wanting can be a lot, but if you get bored that you have, ask yourself a question "do I have the resources to change?"
Unmet needs, inability to recognize their status, rudimentary skills lead to a large number of sharp movements. Men and women leave their partners because they are "too quiet", "too stable", "too serious" and they want madness and emotional outbursts. But the state of "boring" and "joy" are not determined by external factors, they depend on internal maturity.
Therefore, those who want bright life at some point "swing" going backwards, they say that now all too careless, unpredictable and unstable, and want to return to the comfort zone. Quit boring jobs, but the business failed and it became terrible, because children need to feed, loans to give, something to live for — but definitely not boredom.
Impulsive decisions of child position of "I'm bored, want to feel happy right now" usually create more problems than they had before.
The Mature person is still not forget about the feasibility and utility of what he's doing, and it would be good to think in advance about the impact of their actions not only on themselves but also on the loved ones.
To escape from her husband because he's boring, while not having ideas and skills for making money, housing and plans for the future life — not too wise to tear down a fifteen-year relationship with his wife for lack of sex in the last year, without examining other causes — crazy to quit working with credit, and no savings with the hope of a quick income from a new business is imprudent.
If a person is bad inside, external change can only distract, but the problem is not solved. A healthy person need task forces in order not to overstrain overload and not get bored from nedozagruzki, and to select such tasks, one must first understand: who am I? what am I? and you can?
As they say "wherever you go, you take yourself". First, to negotiate with them, and then maybe not so boring in the family but the work will be. I wish you happiness! published
Author: Dean Richards
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: www.facebook.com/dina.v.richards/posts/10154587510139452
Boring wife changed to joyful lovers, from boring men run down to the witty, and hot guys, boring work is left in the name of "realize their destiny" in their own business (certainly an interesting and "changing the world"), another study replaces the previous one, glimpses of people, events and habitats, but the boredom returned.
If it turns out to keep the interest and positive emotions to the important aspects of your life, then fine,but what if not?
Let's understand:
In the history of mankind created many great literary works, most of which is stored in the largest libraries in the world. Access paper, and sometimes the handwritten variants of rare books is of great interest to connoisseurs of the art form, but what happens if you give to the library year-old child?
How long he will be able to occupy yourself with a book of Plato without pictures or treatises of Avicenna? How to get the joy from books, if you still do not know how to read? Perhaps to chew on it, tear out the pages, throw and see how far it can fly. And if that is denied, then how can we not bored, what to do with it?
Don't you think that in life so try to enjoy those activities for which we have no "qualification"because not Mature enough.
Of course, the relationship is boring and bad, if ambitions are high, and qualities not appropriate.
If you continue the book analogy, is that like books about space, and you forever make to study botany, because it's important, clearer and "everybody does it". Or one person loves to read fiction, the second is scientific, and instead give each other the word, share the reading, and to hear about what you do not know, start to prove to each other that serious scientific/artistic prettier.
If you do not take into account the differences between each other in relationships and Outlook on life,it's not only boredom, but also to the hostility to war can be reached.
Unfortunately, sometimes people are not acquainted with their inner world before meeting with the other partner is also not really learned, connected and seem to be living together, but over time you realize that the common themes are not available, and the desire to listen and hear, to be honest, also. Single motorcycles and rock concerts became interested, the second in the Seminary went to stay with a pair of diametrically opposed interests is not so simple.
Favorite book can be one for two, but if you get stuck on it and cease to develop in other directions, one day can become boring.
Read and reread any works can be reused, but when all the jokes memorized, all the phrases are familiar, the ending is known,a better book to put on the shelf and find another to again was interesting, deep and fresh for two.
Often we do not take timely measures to strengthen the relationship and try to get a result, without having invested anything. Anyway, focus only on one aspect of life, trying to close it all her needs, but it's a dead end road. If the work is already loved, but now no longer, the family had everything perfectly, and then collapsed, life was good and became bad, then maybe it's time to turn the page and move on to another story?
Or close with gratitude that nurtured, nourished, forced many to rethink and move on, to open a new book?
It seems to me that in relationships with ourselves, loved ones and the world becomes boring when the potential and degree of implementation vary greatly. But between ambition and achievement are qualities and skills. Wanting can be a lot, but if you get bored that you have, ask yourself a question "do I have the resources to change?"
Unmet needs, inability to recognize their status, rudimentary skills lead to a large number of sharp movements. Men and women leave their partners because they are "too quiet", "too stable", "too serious" and they want madness and emotional outbursts. But the state of "boring" and "joy" are not determined by external factors, they depend on internal maturity.
Therefore, those who want bright life at some point "swing" going backwards, they say that now all too careless, unpredictable and unstable, and want to return to the comfort zone. Quit boring jobs, but the business failed and it became terrible, because children need to feed, loans to give, something to live for — but definitely not boredom.
Impulsive decisions of child position of "I'm bored, want to feel happy right now" usually create more problems than they had before.
The Mature person is still not forget about the feasibility and utility of what he's doing, and it would be good to think in advance about the impact of their actions not only on themselves but also on the loved ones.
To escape from her husband because he's boring, while not having ideas and skills for making money, housing and plans for the future life — not too wise to tear down a fifteen-year relationship with his wife for lack of sex in the last year, without examining other causes — crazy to quit working with credit, and no savings with the hope of a quick income from a new business is imprudent.
If a person is bad inside, external change can only distract, but the problem is not solved. A healthy person need task forces in order not to overstrain overload and not get bored from nedozagruzki, and to select such tasks, one must first understand: who am I? what am I? and you can?
As they say "wherever you go, you take yourself". First, to negotiate with them, and then maybe not so boring in the family but the work will be. I wish you happiness! published
Author: Dean Richards
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: www.facebook.com/dina.v.richards/posts/10154587510139452
