Everyone lives in their own mental reality, which is created by his belief. The main reason for the differences between people – that everyone thinks their perspective is the only correct. The observation of the reality helps to understand that it is just different views of the same, and the reliability criterion is our own life experience. Learning to analyze from different angles, we realize that any position will be inaccurate — only point of view.
As evidenced by the need to prove something to a Rejection of the position of other people causes us negative emotions, but if you look on the other hand, an attempt to prove something is a mirror of what we don't accept:
— the confidence that we know exactly how it should;
— condemnation of the actions of others as a reflection of the rejection itself;
— beliefs that are hopelessly outdated;
unconscious unwillingness to change.
Every person from birth has the ability to think and learn, everyone is born in order to get your own life experience: learn to love, to think independently, create your own world, nothing to prove, nothing to reject, and to accept the perspective of other people (which does not necessarily mean agreement with them).
The adoption as the main way to interact with reality When we agree to the terms that do not match our beliefs, we experience a certain mental discomfort. But if a the fact is, it is for something to exist, regardless of whether or not we like it. To accept means to acknowledge the right of another person to be as he is. Recognizing the existing reality as it is, we get the opportunity to come in contact with her and act on it.
Not taking, we can't take advantage of what is given to us for something important. Resisting certain people or circumstances, we're wasting a huge amount of energy, which could greatly improve our lives.
Never tell anyone does not prove anything, as loss of this energy is just enormous: we extinguish ourselves, other people Gasim, Gasim resources situation and the whole of our reality. We spend mental energy on conversations and issues beyond our powers, and we waste our strength on what cannot change and trying to educate others, to manipulate them, instead of go about their business.
The best way to prove something is to our own lives in harmony internal and external peace, with a joyful and grateful acceptance of the whole. Eastern philosophy calls this process "action in inaction", which really means to let things happen and with nothing to prove. published by P. S. And remember, just changing your mind - together we change the world! ©
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