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Where it goes sex
Dear woman, let's take it for granted that your relationship sex and orgasms — it's only your own absolute responsibility. Embrace the fact, if you think "he what?" "why should I?", "let him have it first, and then I ..." that no good result will happen.
So the initiative will have to take into their own hands, literally and figuratively.
1. So why sex becomes less?
Because nature is a tricky minx. The fact that the first stage of a relationship most people spend high of the hormonal cocktail. Testosterone, estrogen, nitric oxide, and a group of substances with the conditional name "pheromones" — it is to them we owe our desire to fuck like rabbits, anytime, anywhere.
But the brain being lazy and gets used to everything. Over time, it is not enough the standard dose to get the same level of excitement and buzz. It's like with heroin, the dose must be constantly increased.
And when from the presence of the object of adoration in the lower abdomen nothing moves, it then begins a period of decline in sexual activity in pairs. Congratulations, we arrived in the zone of real human relations. Because before that we were more animal passion.
2. What to do?
Then the fun begins. If earlier it was enough just to be naked and passionate night you secured that after 2 years of marriage you it is no surprise.
Now if you want sex you need to seduce her husband. As strange to you as it sounds.
3. How?
I long ago read the book "Sex begins in the kitchen". I don't remember anything except the main idea of sex starts long before you both were in bed.
In the first year does not matter removed from your apartment or not, there's a delicious dinner or not, it's still going to want you.
Now everything has changed. Man, after a hard working day does not want sex, and to eat, silence and care. Remember the main principle: before you take something, you need to give.
The instruction at the return of sex in life.
3.1. Look at yourself and honestly answer yourself the question: "do You yourself want?".
If you're trying for it now as tried on the first date? So why do you think he'll want you in sweatpants?
3.2. You for his next stimulus, or an outlet?
All day long he was fighting for the welfare of the family. What will happen to his home? A woman with problems and complaints. Or a loving, quiet woman who greeted him at the door. Feed. It will not be shipping problems, but rather listen and support.
3.3.As you look at home?
An old Terry Bathrobe? What's tempting you at home?
Stop wearing something that does not really put people. Buy yourself a beautiful home clothes: sundresses, knit dresses. Put the shirt on the naked body in the end.
3.4. Atmosphere.
Create "notebelow" atmosphere. Candle, cool linen, incense.
See also: 13 ways to love yourself, how do French women
Life lessons beautifully aging women
3.5. Want sex — don't wait for initiative from his side.
Show some initiative herself, but not in a categorical format. Wipe it the with a soft towel after a shower, give him a massage legs, head or entire body. Cut all his body with kisses... Then improvise.
There is a huge scale for the manifestation of fantasy! The main thing is not to fear and not to wait for manna from heaven, but actually to do.
Try for him and for yourself. The result will not keep itself waiting long! published
Author: Bogdan Valigura
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
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So the initiative will have to take into their own hands, literally and figuratively.
1. So why sex becomes less?
Because nature is a tricky minx. The fact that the first stage of a relationship most people spend high of the hormonal cocktail. Testosterone, estrogen, nitric oxide, and a group of substances with the conditional name "pheromones" — it is to them we owe our desire to fuck like rabbits, anytime, anywhere.
But the brain being lazy and gets used to everything. Over time, it is not enough the standard dose to get the same level of excitement and buzz. It's like with heroin, the dose must be constantly increased.
And when from the presence of the object of adoration in the lower abdomen nothing moves, it then begins a period of decline in sexual activity in pairs. Congratulations, we arrived in the zone of real human relations. Because before that we were more animal passion.
2. What to do?
Then the fun begins. If earlier it was enough just to be naked and passionate night you secured that after 2 years of marriage you it is no surprise.
Now if you want sex you need to seduce her husband. As strange to you as it sounds.
3. How?
I long ago read the book "Sex begins in the kitchen". I don't remember anything except the main idea of sex starts long before you both were in bed.
In the first year does not matter removed from your apartment or not, there's a delicious dinner or not, it's still going to want you.
Now everything has changed. Man, after a hard working day does not want sex, and to eat, silence and care. Remember the main principle: before you take something, you need to give.
The instruction at the return of sex in life.
3.1. Look at yourself and honestly answer yourself the question: "do You yourself want?".
If you're trying for it now as tried on the first date? So why do you think he'll want you in sweatpants?
3.2. You for his next stimulus, or an outlet?
All day long he was fighting for the welfare of the family. What will happen to his home? A woman with problems and complaints. Or a loving, quiet woman who greeted him at the door. Feed. It will not be shipping problems, but rather listen and support.
3.3.As you look at home?
An old Terry Bathrobe? What's tempting you at home?
Stop wearing something that does not really put people. Buy yourself a beautiful home clothes: sundresses, knit dresses. Put the shirt on the naked body in the end.
3.4. Atmosphere.
Create "notebelow" atmosphere. Candle, cool linen, incense.
See also: 13 ways to love yourself, how do French women
Life lessons beautifully aging women
3.5. Want sex — don't wait for initiative from his side.
Show some initiative herself, but not in a categorical format. Wipe it the with a soft towel after a shower, give him a massage legs, head or entire body. Cut all his body with kisses... Then improvise.
There is a huge scale for the manifestation of fantasy! The main thing is not to fear and not to wait for manna from heaven, but actually to do.
Try for him and for yourself. The result will not keep itself waiting long! published
Author: Bogdan Valigura
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: vk.com/feed?w=wall-41004550_30479
