6 simple tips to help you negotiate with your child

You are trying to establish a rule: the child must bring order to the child before the morning and evening walk. But somehow the baby regularly does not have time to do this: the first wants a little bit to see the book (a book - it is very important for you), it is very long and carefully cleans the teeth (and you just always explain that the teeth should be brushed at ten seconds), it draws you a gift and takes offense to any of your attempts to end this occupation. As a result, the room is still unmade, until one day you do not restore order themselves.

You're trying to teach your child to read every day, but he is too tired or too long breakfast up until it was time to go for a walk, then took the book - and saw all the pictures, did not read a single line
Each time, coming out of the store, you firmly say to the child that more than just buy anything will not. But each time at the checkout you are the markers, the machine, the set chocolate.

< In a word, the child manages to change your decisions on their own, favorable to him. And you ... you - the victim of his manipulation

. How to prevent this

• clearly understand for yourself what you want and why
  
• Understanding your goals, you determine what you can change, and what - you can not
  
• manage to objectively see the situation
  
• Explain to the child need to fulfill your request
  
• Give your child bonuses
  
• Know how sometimes abandon its decision
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