15 bag of tricks from psychology, which is useful to know

These psychological tricks to make life easier and help you to cope with stressful situations.

1. When the laughing group of people, each instinctively looks at someone who he just nicer (or the one he wanted to be considered a close friend).

2. When you have to do something special charge or requiring concentration, in one word, what usually makes us nervous, it is worth trying to chew gum or eat anything. It is associated with the subconscious sense of security, because usually we eat when we are in no danger.

3. If someone is angry with us, and we are thus unable to remain calm, then anger, probably, will only worsen. Later, however, this person will be ashamed of his behavior.

4. If a question people respond only partially or too evasive, do not ask again. Better to just silently look into his eyes. He is likely to understand that the answer did not satisfy the interlocutor, and will continue to talk.

5. Facial expressions, it turns out, can not only be the result of feelings, but also cause these same feelings. Feedback works almost flawlessly, so wishing should feel happy to smile as often and as widely as possible.




6. It is better not to use in speech or writings such phrases as "I think" or "I think." They themselves are understood, however, give the words a shade of uncertainty.

7. Before an important interview is useful to imagine that we are connected with the interviewer longstanding close friendship. From us is almost always dependent on themselves, how to interpret the situation, and our peace of mind and ease can be transmitted to the other party.

8. If we are able to bring myself to sincerely rejoice when meeting with someone at the next meeting of this man and he will be happy to see us. (By the way, the dog is constantly doing a stunt with us this).

9. People tend to settle for less favor once denied us for more.

10. A lot of useful information can be extracted by paying attention to the position of the interlocutor feet. If, say, socks his shoe facing the opposite side from us, this usually means that the person wants to quickly end the conversation.

11. Many of us have ever attend the meeting, in a situation where there is reason to expect a sharp and unpleasant criticism from anyone. In such circumstances, it is best to sit down with this person. Practice shows - he will lose all his fervor and intent to attack, or at least it will be much softer

. 12. Most people do not will be different from the magnificence of the simple confidence. If you learn all kind show confidence, people will be drawn to us.

13. A good advice for those who work in the service sector: it is necessary to hang behind her mirror. People will behave much more correct, because nobody likes to see himself annoyed and angry.

14. It is a good habit - to notice the color of the human eye when meeting. He unconsciously feels sympathy due to our slightly elongated eye contact.

15. Going on a first date, it is not unreasonable to withdraw a partner in some fascinating place. Subsequently, the positive emotions from this meeting will be associated with us.