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How to check the reliability of a man on a first date

These questions formulated by practicing psychologist, author and host of training courses about the relationship between a man and a woman and a specialist to establish personal life Vadim Kurkin. They will help you understand if a man for a serious relationship. To avoid disappointment, it is best to ask them from the very first meetings and dates.




1. What are your immediate goals and plans?

If a man does not have short-term goals and plans (approximately 1-3 years), most likely, in front of you "sissy" or unreliable man. The male energy - the energy of forward motion. And if a man aspires to more, planning something, then it shows that he has all the chances to succeed in the future.

2. What are your long-term plans and goals?

Long-term plans should be different from the short-term. It has plans for 3-5 years or more. For long-term and reliable men will not be difficult to portray these plans. Especially if you show a genuine interest in his story. :)

3. How do you look at our relationship?

In the context of this question it is important to understand what the value of this man - whether he wants a family, as it relates to children, what his relationship with his parents. Do not be afraid to ask the question on the first date, if you really want to understand whether you fit this man in front of you or another adventurer.

4. What do you think about me?

To this question men often meet the standard phrases. Try to get the specifics. Use probing questions such as "why do you think I am?", "What you led me to this point?", "How do you notice in me is the quality?". And if a man finds an explanation, recalls some examples from your joint pastime, it means you he really is interested.

5. How do you feel about me?

This is perhaps the most difficult issue for men as it faces the side of the senses, but to them it is not always easy to openly express their feelings. But if a man can not answer, then, most likely, he did not feel it to you, but just want you to get something. Standard answers a series of "thou cool, cool, cool, cool" is also not appropriate. His words should help you feel beautiful and wonderful and make you understand that you are not indifferent to him.

Reliable man, who, in fact, expects to build long-term relationship with you, the easy answer to all these questions.