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Leaving to stay
People are very afraid of parting, and pause to any uncertainty often induce panic. "And suddenly in my life and never will be nothing?" It will be, even as it is. One will be - that's for sure, but that was better than just "somehow" need to work hard.
It is said that all the lessons are best held at a distance. In an ideal case, of course, to the relationship you need to prepare to relationships, as, indeed, and all other important stages and events of our lives, but that's as anyone lucky, who knows what we put out there by fate.
Someone obtained to acquire the necessary knowledge to the fateful meeting, and others have to fire, water, copper pipes so their happiness from life to win. Sometimes it's better to stand on pause and pay attention to the half-taught lessons separately, instead of together to destroy that and so has not been strengthened.
Do not be afraid of parting! week, month, year - it does not matter. Your whole would return, more precisely, it really did leave something will not be able to. It would seem to have decided that all end, but life is constantly pushes and pushes you on track. But close to one another does not come, because each of you need time to ripen. Ripen for each other or for other partners: no one knows what the result will end your interval. Time points are converted into commas, and sometimes hang in the air mixed dots.
We are afraid of parting, but even more we are afraid of encounters. And here it go and try to choose the lesser of two evils. Step Forward - crumbling personal boundaries, dissolve the ego, where are you, where it is - but who would know, scary. Two steps back much safer here and dance: step forward, two steps back. Get close and push off, more than anything else to desire to be close, but did not dare to step into the unknown.
To allow to approach a close friend, you must learn to know yourself. In each of us there is both light and shadow. We must learn to accept his shadow, to learn to love someone who is inside, learn to be grateful for what is already there in all of us.
Often we rush to conquer the other person really still do not even know yourself. Why rush? Why would win? Deepen, learn that there is within each of us - and flowers bloom themselves. People do not occur by chance, every meeting has any sense, but that's what is the point - is not always possible to solve, at least not immediately. Big is seen at a distance.
The deeper and more subtle world you discover within yourself, the more stable (but not unfeeling) to get changes in the environment. If the sun shines inside, then is there any difference what the weather outside?
Remember, what was the inscription on the ring of King Solomon? «Everything passes, and this too shall pass!» Pause one end, parting again replaced appointments, meetings, however - only time will tell, but for now each of us has something to do.
develop, thrive, expand the potential inherent in you, learn to give warmth and care to their loved ones, and love once she comes, is sure to come. I wish you happiness.
Author: Dean Richards
Photos in the preview: Pavel Pereverzev
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