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I want to leave my husband with my kids as soon as possible.
If a woman states unequivocally, I want to leave my husband.So there was really something out of the ordinary. Just so, under the mood, who can decide on such a thing? Exactly. But, as they say, unclean lies in the little things, and then you need to see in time what awaits you. That's what happened to our subscriber.
Editorial "Site" Ask for help from good people – help with advice! The woman was in a strange situation. Perhaps her decision was impulsive. Or did she do the right thing? Here's her letter. We're taking it literally.
After my husband made a toast at our one-year-old daughter’s birthday party, I had no choice but to leave the table and go pack. I called the next day and asked him to think. But I have serious doubts. For what a sober man has in his mind, a sober man has in his tongue. So he really thinks as he says.
This is my second marriage. The first one ended tragically. I have only one son left and I am a widow. Roma seemed to me reliable, serious. But most importantly, he accepted his son and treated him very well. This continued for several years until I became pregnant with Roma. And then something went wrong.
It would seem that the birth of a daughter should only unite our small but strong family. I noticed that my husband had changed. It was as if he had cooled off with my son and me and now most of all wanted to be with his baby. His face showed at his birthday, when his daughter was a year old.
We all had a great time, a lot of guests, a lot of gifts, parents. When Roma started to make a toast, he said that this is the first real holiday in our family. I wish my daughter happiness and support. And suddenly someone asked about Danil. Like, he's your son, too.
And then Rom got carried away. He publicly declared that Danya was not his son and that as soon as he was eighteen he would send him home. He was pulled over by his own father, saying, Roma, you now knew what you were going to, how you could say that? My husband seems to be getting even more excited.
He shouted that Danya was not his son. He'll kick me out if I don't try. Because I have nowhere to go anyway. And so I don't even bother. I listened to it all. It felt like I was in a cold shower. When he finished, I silently left the table and went to pack. I'm not gonna rattle. Come on, Roma! What kind of spit?
I want to leave my husband First his sister came to me, they say, Anya, think about it. He just drank, so he's heretical. Don't take it personally. Where are you going? I say I can't help but take it. He's my husband, and if he says that, he really thinks so. I'm going to my parents. We'll go together. It's a good thing my father held back. But I think he and Roma will talk about it.
That same night I went to my parents. Roma doesn't even seem to understand what happened. I started calling in the morning, saying what happened. I told him how it was and why he would only see Dashka on weekends. And he doesn't have to date Dana at all. We're with our parents, and we're fine.
A week later, Dani's grandparents, the parents of her first husband, said our former apartment was at our disposal. They didn’t sell it, and for several years there lived quiet tenants. So we can move there again, and they will do their best. And Dashka is now their granddaughter.
Roma wants to come back, has already apologized, and I'm thinking, should I? Do I have to be around a man who is going to kick my son out when he grows up? Do I have to be around someone who thinks I’m going to “sniff”? I don't know either. Tell me, good people, what should I do? It is still a month before the divorce.”
This time we will not give a moral assessment of what is happening. Let’s just say that this story is unpleasant for us. We are waiting for your advice in the comments. Please tell these people what is the best thing for them to do now? Whatever they are. your actionsAre you in a situation like this?
If a woman states unequivocally, I want to leave my husband.So there was really something out of the ordinary. It's time to pray. Find out why you shouldn’t be afraid of divorce. And thank you for staying with us!
Editorial "Site" Ask for help from good people – help with advice! The woman was in a strange situation. Perhaps her decision was impulsive. Or did she do the right thing? Here's her letter. We're taking it literally.
After my husband made a toast at our one-year-old daughter’s birthday party, I had no choice but to leave the table and go pack. I called the next day and asked him to think. But I have serious doubts. For what a sober man has in his mind, a sober man has in his tongue. So he really thinks as he says.
This is my second marriage. The first one ended tragically. I have only one son left and I am a widow. Roma seemed to me reliable, serious. But most importantly, he accepted his son and treated him very well. This continued for several years until I became pregnant with Roma. And then something went wrong.
It would seem that the birth of a daughter should only unite our small but strong family. I noticed that my husband had changed. It was as if he had cooled off with my son and me and now most of all wanted to be with his baby. His face showed at his birthday, when his daughter was a year old.
We all had a great time, a lot of guests, a lot of gifts, parents. When Roma started to make a toast, he said that this is the first real holiday in our family. I wish my daughter happiness and support. And suddenly someone asked about Danil. Like, he's your son, too.
And then Rom got carried away. He publicly declared that Danya was not his son and that as soon as he was eighteen he would send him home. He was pulled over by his own father, saying, Roma, you now knew what you were going to, how you could say that? My husband seems to be getting even more excited.
He shouted that Danya was not his son. He'll kick me out if I don't try. Because I have nowhere to go anyway. And so I don't even bother. I listened to it all. It felt like I was in a cold shower. When he finished, I silently left the table and went to pack. I'm not gonna rattle. Come on, Roma! What kind of spit?
I want to leave my husband First his sister came to me, they say, Anya, think about it. He just drank, so he's heretical. Don't take it personally. Where are you going? I say I can't help but take it. He's my husband, and if he says that, he really thinks so. I'm going to my parents. We'll go together. It's a good thing my father held back. But I think he and Roma will talk about it.
That same night I went to my parents. Roma doesn't even seem to understand what happened. I started calling in the morning, saying what happened. I told him how it was and why he would only see Dashka on weekends. And he doesn't have to date Dana at all. We're with our parents, and we're fine.
A week later, Dani's grandparents, the parents of her first husband, said our former apartment was at our disposal. They didn’t sell it, and for several years there lived quiet tenants. So we can move there again, and they will do their best. And Dashka is now their granddaughter.
Roma wants to come back, has already apologized, and I'm thinking, should I? Do I have to be around a man who is going to kick my son out when he grows up? Do I have to be around someone who thinks I’m going to “sniff”? I don't know either. Tell me, good people, what should I do? It is still a month before the divorce.”
This time we will not give a moral assessment of what is happening. Let’s just say that this story is unpleasant for us. We are waiting for your advice in the comments. Please tell these people what is the best thing for them to do now? Whatever they are. your actionsAre you in a situation like this?
If a woman states unequivocally, I want to leave my husband.So there was really something out of the ordinary. It's time to pray. Find out why you shouldn’t be afraid of divorce. And thank you for staying with us!
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