What is the wise thing to do if you are cheated: leave or stay? The choice is difficult. Bashny.Net

Cheating is the hardest blow for one partner. Anger, sadness, unjustified trust and loyalty, lost time – this is what a person feels when he learns that he was betrayed. For everyone. treason Your own: physical contact, close communication, or just thinking about something else. But in the end, everyone asks one question: “To forgive or to leave without looking back?”





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Of course, everyone around us is teaching us to leave. Perhaps it is still worth soberly weighing how bad the act is. Some stages in a relationship are full of mistakes, and a person tends to do stupid things. It is easy to leave, but together to heal the wounds and find the strength to go further is much more difficult. Editorial "Site" Here are 5 reasons why you should forgiving treason and being together.





How to forgive treason

1. Once you promised each other to be together in joy and sorrow. There are no perfect people and no relationships without problems. Things can only go smoothly where people don't care about each other. Talk, try to understand what caused this act. Remember, it's always two faults. Of course, there are just people walking, but that’s another story.
   
   
   
   
2. No matter what anyone says, any relationship is built on sympathy and feelings. Even those with a strong material base. If a person is close to another, he values certain qualities in him. The person himself is a value. Think about losing something that has always been important to you. Yeah, you've been hurt, but it's worth looking into, not chopping off your shoulder.
   
   
   
   

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A person does not appreciate what he has. He will begin to truly value his soulmate only when he realizes that he can lose her. Think about what you share with each other and why you care about your partner.



Think about what a huge collection of memories you have. You went through all the victories and downs together. Is it worth one misdemeanor to bury all this? And the house that we have acquired together also holds. And the kids? It's worth stepping over yourself for them.



It is believed that everything is based on loyalty and truth. But let's talk, is that the only thing that's necessary for a relationship? If you were asked to highlight one important quality in your partner, would it be loyalty? There are a lot of things that are important.





Never rush to sentence a person without thinking about it properly. After all, the moment you learn about cheating, you are guided by emotions. Perhaps the person who is seen infidelity, did not want to offend you at all, and he himself may not understand why this happened. This is life and everyone has the right to make a mistake. You can always leave. Take care of each other!



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