But from whom it should stay away. Recognize narcissus and uspey time to leave! Bashny.Net

Most of us had to consist in dealing with narcissistic people. It may not necessarily be a loved one - daffodils everywhere, neighbors, colleagues, friends. You may be drawn into the quagmire of a nasty relationship with a man who loves only himself. There is your fault - you have voluntarily agreed to interact with a narcissist. So do not complain if you so hard: it is better to leave. If you're not a masochist, of course.





unhealthy relationship harassed you and taken all the power. Man can not be happy if next to him is the one who constantly poisons his life. Reconsider their views on the people around them and what is happening to you. Perhaps you really should stop to chat with a person, if you notice symptoms such sad:

1. This man never takes responsibility for what happens. Instead, he likes to blame others.

2. The narcissist neemotsionalen. He rarely expresses his emotions, especially evident during an argument. It can also prohibit you to express emotions, and it is - a sophisticated form of violence.

3. To take care of the maintenance and development of relations do you. If you put a lot into a relationship with this person, but he did not take a single step forward, it is a sure sign of narcissism. Man daffodil, like an energy vampire, takes you all the energy and gives nothing in return.

4. You always make excuses to them. All your power goes out to fix something - except that you do not know what. Everything seems to be in order, but the man-daffodil never miss an opportunity to accuse you.

5. This person is charming, often flirting with other people, even when they are in a serious relationship. He is a very high opinion of himself.

6. The narcissist is irresponsible about his work, the financial position does not aspire to stability in life and does not see stability in this sense. His sense of life - to make sure that it was good to him. Everything else - do not care.

7. When you are close to that person, you feel like a hero of the film about Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. At one point he was very nice, but is it worth to you to say or do something that he does not like ... Harshness be immediate reaction. Do you like walking on eggshells, dealing with a narcissist - one wrong move and everything. Failure.





If you see these signs in your loved one, all you can do - go. The faster you do it, the better. The man who is in love only themselves, never change! You should not try to influence this fact, all attempts will be in vain. You will always be something to blame, while next to him, this man is able to completely crush your self-esteem. Why do you need it if there are more around decent people?

5 steps to end an unhealthy relationship:

1. Keep the person at a distance. If this is your partner, try not to communicate with him for a while. If it is a colleague or friend - to communicate in extreme situations, only if you want it very much.

2. Find out why this person chose you. Why did you pick the victim? This is the only question that you need to understand. In all other stop blaming yourself. What you did not accept the narcissist - not your fault. Get ready to learn the secret: he does not want anybody ever!

3. If you have made a disappointing conclusions and realize that was strongly associated with the narcissist - it's time to break this destructive relationship. Pack up and go very quickly. Do not be surprised: this man will not be much to worry or suffer a long time, he'll continue to move through life. He can not get attached to someone and can love only themselves. Do not argue and do not explain anything - just go.

4. Increase your self-esteem, and free yourself from the need to obtain the approval of others. So you protect yourself from the meeting with another narcissist who pulls and assert themselves at the expense of those who are weaker.

5. Love yourself and surround yourself with people who love and appreciate you for real.

Believe me, you will never regret that such a relationship has stopped. There is a limit, your nervous system is not designed for constant harassment. Better to leave while you still have the strength for it - take a little time and an unhealthy relationship will drain you completely. Go away, do not look back and believe his luck - after such a test, as the relationship with the narcissist, you definitely deserve it.

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