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Leave time
Leave on time. Home, even if you have no one there waiting for incendiary parties of guests without "Pososhkov" of irrelevant links and bad habits. From depression and dark thoughts from the painful memories of relationships, outdated, from the people, destroying you, or the person next to you.
Give him and yourself a chance to find (and maybe yourself) who will be better , comfortable, quiet in the form in which it is necessary for each of you. If so, you are not able to give it to each other for one reason or another, do not deprive each other trying to find it and hope in other ways and in himself.
Do not be greedy, not to take away from others of their chance to be happy as they understand it, and at - your. Because each of us is in its point in evolution, moving to its own rhythm, emits at its frequency, vibrating in its wake and get the experience.
And if you went to someone in response - you have found each other and dance dance together. And if in the protracted discord - you will get the necessary experience, sign below it, thank you. And leave time.
Do not set in motion the mechanism that you press down hard yoke of circumstances when you will be forced to make a decision in a far less convenient for you; where you have to slide out from under a millstone rather superficial but painful wounding "public" reasoning, which do not care about your true, sincere and vital motives, to your vydohnuvshegosya patience and many attempts something to "save" someone "to save ».
Get out of time, do not leave the body of your life deep scars , does not infect his soul voracious virus guilt - feeling, with incredible zeal rejects you from its very life and the only from himself. Leave on time, do not burn out pictures on the fragile fabric of your destiny. And it does not infringe on someone else's skin.
Appreciate your life more than your life appreciate other
It is easy to lose yourself, it is easy to dissolve itself in the other, in someone else's life, someone's another world, someone different reality. It is not difficult, even this demand and desire.
find himself - hard. Only we can identify and prevent measure of the use itself. After all, sacrificing himself in vain, beyond the allotted you measure participation in someone else's life, you are not automatically Doda yourself (and maybe someone who in this genuinely need ), or some other segment of your life, you did not have quite small - just the wasted power.
Any relationship fruitful when they have an exchange, interaction, feedback. This pair dance. But if you started ked one another's feet to the pain and the blood is necessary to stop the dance, and to heal the wounds, to begin a new beautiful dance, perhaps with a new partner. And so in any relationship - partner, family, work.
Learn to leave time inside the situation, and on the situations and circumstances in your life. You always know the moment: trust yourself, do not persuade yourself, do not be fooled and do not be fooled by others.
There are no bad people, as we would have liked to argue about it. There are people who are different from us. For the true meaning of a sacred rite called life unknown to us, but it is filled with everything that is inside and outside, over our understanding, and within it, animate and inanimate. And there is no other responsibility than to ourselves and each other, but in the first place - in front of him.
Everything that happens in our life, everything that is happening around us and in the distant Galapagos Islands of Ecuador, comes with our permission. We have let our life be what it is, we have given it time for a change in action, we have broken the lever with the spring that broke with all compressed and pumped power and convulsively beats now-chaotic free guy. We are allowed to dominate the gray shades in our lives, we allowed ourselves to be afraid of all, we allowed ourselves to be outsiders in their own lives.
Look, maybe it's time to get away from this. Incredibly difficult to give up everything that has outlived its usefulness, and leave, who would it nor write. To leave hard, but just need to go on time. matures within its infinity as much as you need, but - in time to leave.
Leave time of judgment and opinions of others, look to wrap yourself. Where is the point of your support? After all, the only way you can turn the whole world. Do not look for it in the other, another, another. I'll give you a secret - it's not there! As there is no happiness in someone, if it is not in you.
Leave time from obsessive delusions and imposed fear, but continue to strive, keep dreaming, keep trying. Do not be afraid to make a mistake - because it means that you've tried. Do not be afraid of the reactions of other people, you still can not completely predict it until you make plans, and if you can - the more meaningless fear. But you will have the chance to leave on time. Yes, leave and move on.
We know when we have something there that we would like to have when we something is given, and we waited. But we never think that, from what we have saved, not giving us the desired today.
The truth is simple: everything arrives on time, even miracles
Author: Tatiana Baruch
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