Very often we don't realize that people can hurt us. From such, it is important to stay away.As soon as you notice their negative impact, try to establish distance and maintain it.
To be in bad company — simple. Very often we are surrounded by people whom should not be. Therefore, you should always spend some time to perform your social circle. Nice to be around these people or not. Because each of us ultimately want to be with those who help to grow and develop, who would have appreciated and had a positive impact on us.
Several types of people from whom better to stay as far as possible, if you don't want to hurt you.1. Indignant critics
to Hear criticism from time to time is absolutely fine (whether it is negative or positive). But there are people who can't ignore no action of yours, and it always will be perceived as "wrong".
They will always find a reason to frown to speak, or at least to look askance at you.
But the problem is not you but them. The fact is that when someone is not satisfied with his life and feels himself a failure, he instinctively seeks to assert itself at the expense of others. He believes that everyone else in life will meet the same sad fate. And to be around such people is very bad, even dangerous. "Indignant critics" as a rule, very cruel, and they don't care they hurt you or not.
2. The manipulators are
Another type of people from whom it is best to stay away, it is the manipulators, although they may be difficult to detect.Often they are more powerful, some kind of "power" over you, forcing you to do what they want.
They use people, resorting to any tricks, these people stop at nothing.The main thing for them — to achieve their goal.
However, they generally do not reveal their intentions. They are trying to manipulate your emotions so you felt a sense of guilt or responsibility. If you are a person kind and sensitive, they will be even easier to do. They immediately will find these are your "weaknesses".
But you must understand that such a class of people prevent you from to meet their needs, they will try to occupy you with their personal interests, so you "worked" on them.
For this reason, you should quickly move away from them and maintain a certain distance in communication.3. Liars
Lie — a very common phenomenon in our daily life. But if the people close to you cheat on you with surprising regularity,it is obvious that they are just not respected. It is also the people who should stay away. And it must be done before they have time to harm you. Many simply do not notice the lie.Just do not need to feel guilty for the fact that you expunged them from your life.
In the end, if they are so easy to distort the reality of what is happening, they surely will sooner or later involve you in their lies and creating unnecessary problems.4. Pessimists
pessimism is a state of mind in which every situation, whatever it was, it may seem overshadowed and "should certainly end badly". Therefore, we believe that the following type of "harmful" for us, people are the pessimists. Those that see everything in black color.
They always Express their emotions outwardly, and there is no doubt that in your head will soon be spinning the most bad scenario. And worst of all, bad thoughts materialists, have such property. And yet the pessimists are creating "bad" situation.
And even if you will have several options of possible solutions to a particular problem, they will always find reasons and excuses why "nothing happens". 5. Petty and vile people
Meanness and pettiness is one of the worst qualities that can possess people. They will find any excuse to not give you anything. And in this case we mean not only material goods.They just have no intention of trying to help someone
. And this is not selfishness, although it is often confused with human pettiness. Such people always look for someone's support and try in any situation to extract benefits for themselves (even if it is something very small).
Such friends love to go with you to have fun, but magdadala comes, for example, to paying the bill at the restaurant, they find a way to disappear or otherwise to avoid spending money.6. Gossip
the Last type of people from whom better to stay away, it's gossip. The desire to talk about other shows that they are unsure of themselves. This type of people can not do the difference between their speculation and just poor transfer of information.
And gossip can hurt so many people, if not treated with care to their feelings. For this reason, spend your time talking with gossip — is to destroy his image in the eyes of others. You even completely unintentionally can appear real enemies. And another argument: where you have a guarantee that these people gossip do not talk bad to and about you when you turn your back on them?
Learn to recognize the people from whom you should stay away
In addition to these types of people, of course, there are others who can harm you if you're not careful. About these, we tell you how about the most common. Start with them and you will notice that life has become much easier and more enjoyable.
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©