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Attention! Why you should NOT accept the friendship in social networks from unknown aliens
Today I want to share a sad experience to warn you against hasty consent to friendship in Facebook. Especially this letter is addressed to girls, women. If you read my story, you don't have to spend hours cleaning friends list as I had.
Friendship in social networks – two approachesTo this case I treated the friendship in social networks in different ways depending on the mood. At some period studied account of each visit the Dominican Republic on the subject of advertising and attitudes to life. In the other accepted requests from everyone.
What started a snowballRecently, just in the second period, to my Facebook knocked on a stranger with a name in Latin. I approved the request without looking.
After a couple of minutes to friends asked some foreigner, I also added. After that, the demands of men with non-European appearance began to grow like a snowball. Literally – exponentially! That is, I closed my social network in half an hour, and, opening, found 30-50 queries. So they are not "hung", I approve. And it was repeated, but to an even greater extent.
The fact that the creators of Facebook has provided tools to boost users to ensure that they made friends with lots of people. Before you obsessive looming profiles of friends of your friends with the clue "people You may know". Seeing the avatar of the girl with the Cyrillic name friends with "their people", the foreigners thought, "yeah, so, and me she, too, will add" and knocked me.
When personal messages are harmless only at first vzgljadami a day I was bored, and I began to reject new requests. But less they didn't. Besides a personal message with some flowers, cats, smiles, compliments and greetings in English and Russian autoperimeter. The first message I opened and then deleted, not looking to clear the history and don't miss important correspondence with colleagues and friends.
I asked only one question – what is the purpose of these people, if in my profile there is a status "married", and Facebook as the international network, translates this status to the languages of different users? Later you will learn that it was these people need.
Meanwhile, I started to ask friends not only people with names in Latin, but Arabica.
Chronicle in Facebook, which is a shameRealizing that I don't respond to private messages, unknown to me people from Egypt and Syria began to place on my wall (in my chronicle, to speak in Facebook terms) cards with text translated mean something like "thank you for accept friendship."
I was worried already for your business reputation in Facebook I have friends, many colleagues, who could see it. I have on the cover – the sons, the avatar is also decent, and the wall full of postcards from macho from Damascus. I deleted these images, blocked senders.
As you know, by this time I a million times already regretted that started to add everyone. Here it should be noted that all the described events occurred within a half to two days. That is, I have not had time to understand what it all means. I was in a network not all the time and react in between the main business.
What was the reaction of the husbandOver dinner, I complained to my Wife on the flow of weird people, and my favorite says, "Take them! Some residence – Syria. Profile everything on Arabica, you don't understand what is written there. Maybe it's a terrorist, and you had to friends."
Unfortunately, would-be friends by the time we had collected 400 people, and I thought with horror, how much time to spend on cleaning. To open a new account is also not an option, I have all the contacts, correspondence, memories, community.
I googled how to remove unwanted "friends" from the pack. Realized that a simple way exists. Even if you download a special browser extension, the extra friends you still need to manually group to the list. That is, in the end still poking out at everyone.
In General, I refused this idea, because I have the evening there was free time. But I was wrong — then there was that time found.
As I started to frame friends, she is not wantingthe same evening these strangers began to get not only me, but girls who are on my friends. Sister wrote to me: "Vic, some of your friends I offer friendship on Facebook. Some Danis Abuzer". And then I began to understand that these people are like locusts, attack not only on my account. So I "substituted" their relatives and friends. It really has become a virus!
The most horrible thing that became the last strawAlmost immediately after this happened to you, then I will not regret it midnight on manual deletion of every foreigner, just to forever get rid of it.
It turns out that Facebook has the option of video calls. My smartphone is uncharacteristically capiltal, and I saw a call from someone with a foreign name. Surprised by such impudence – I even know people aren't on live, not pre-agreed in the correspondence
Well, I ignored the call, but Jack says, "next time give me the phone!".
Less than 10 minutes, we heard a new call. I gave the mobile to her husband, and she went to the nursery. According to Zhenya, on the other side of the screen sitting naked (!) the man and performed specific actions.
When Jack told me that, I thought I would die of embarrassment over the fact that I am so legkomyslennyj of human life, did not include time filtering of queries and ran into this nightmare.
Why do foreigners add them to friends Russian girlsAnd then I gradually began to reach the goal of all these queries, and Eugene, I also chewed. Yes, it's not "recruitment", as suggested earlier, Jack. This is a virtual-distorted communication via video with women is not like the mentality of women from countries where they live, these worried men. Most likely, their women go in private clothes and not sitting on the Internet, so these people knock on Russian for virtual communication.
Foreigners no matter what status they don't care: you or the marriage. These people are knocking to all in a row with Cyrillic names – perhaps some inattentive (like me) will approve the request.
How to delete recently added friends from FacebookAfter this I, in spite of the lack of time, it became clear your friends list. Fortunately, in Facebook when you open the friends list there is a button "Recently added".
If you click on it, these people are not mixed with normal friends, and in a row.
While I had to manually delete each, I sent a few more messages in the PM. But one was not flowers and kittens, and a porno picture. I thought I was gonna puke (although I am quite a grown woman).
I quickly began to clean the list that I forgot to do screenshots for this post. Removing the last Arab friend and rechecking your friends list, I exhaled. Jack this story took a humorous and sometimes still making fun of my naivete.
Insights
Author: Victoria Kobzeva
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind - together we change the world! ©
Source: blogtori.wordpress.com/2016/12/01/druzhba-v-facebook/
Friendship in social networks – two approachesTo this case I treated the friendship in social networks in different ways depending on the mood. At some period studied account of each visit the Dominican Republic on the subject of advertising and attitudes to life. In the other accepted requests from everyone.
What started a snowballRecently, just in the second period, to my Facebook knocked on a stranger with a name in Latin. I approved the request without looking.
After a couple of minutes to friends asked some foreigner, I also added. After that, the demands of men with non-European appearance began to grow like a snowball. Literally – exponentially! That is, I closed my social network in half an hour, and, opening, found 30-50 queries. So they are not "hung", I approve. And it was repeated, but to an even greater extent.
The fact that the creators of Facebook has provided tools to boost users to ensure that they made friends with lots of people. Before you obsessive looming profiles of friends of your friends with the clue "people You may know". Seeing the avatar of the girl with the Cyrillic name friends with "their people", the foreigners thought, "yeah, so, and me she, too, will add" and knocked me.
When personal messages are harmless only at first vzgljadami a day I was bored, and I began to reject new requests. But less they didn't. Besides a personal message with some flowers, cats, smiles, compliments and greetings in English and Russian autoperimeter. The first message I opened and then deleted, not looking to clear the history and don't miss important correspondence with colleagues and friends.
I asked only one question – what is the purpose of these people, if in my profile there is a status "married", and Facebook as the international network, translates this status to the languages of different users? Later you will learn that it was these people need.
Meanwhile, I started to ask friends not only people with names in Latin, but Arabica.
Chronicle in Facebook, which is a shameRealizing that I don't respond to private messages, unknown to me people from Egypt and Syria began to place on my wall (in my chronicle, to speak in Facebook terms) cards with text translated mean something like "thank you for accept friendship."
I was worried already for your business reputation in Facebook I have friends, many colleagues, who could see it. I have on the cover – the sons, the avatar is also decent, and the wall full of postcards from macho from Damascus. I deleted these images, blocked senders.
As you know, by this time I a million times already regretted that started to add everyone. Here it should be noted that all the described events occurred within a half to two days. That is, I have not had time to understand what it all means. I was in a network not all the time and react in between the main business.
What was the reaction of the husbandOver dinner, I complained to my Wife on the flow of weird people, and my favorite says, "Take them! Some residence – Syria. Profile everything on Arabica, you don't understand what is written there. Maybe it's a terrorist, and you had to friends."
Unfortunately, would-be friends by the time we had collected 400 people, and I thought with horror, how much time to spend on cleaning. To open a new account is also not an option, I have all the contacts, correspondence, memories, community.
I googled how to remove unwanted "friends" from the pack. Realized that a simple way exists. Even if you download a special browser extension, the extra friends you still need to manually group to the list. That is, in the end still poking out at everyone.
In General, I refused this idea, because I have the evening there was free time. But I was wrong — then there was that time found.
As I started to frame friends, she is not wantingthe same evening these strangers began to get not only me, but girls who are on my friends. Sister wrote to me: "Vic, some of your friends I offer friendship on Facebook. Some Danis Abuzer". And then I began to understand that these people are like locusts, attack not only on my account. So I "substituted" their relatives and friends. It really has become a virus!
The most horrible thing that became the last strawAlmost immediately after this happened to you, then I will not regret it midnight on manual deletion of every foreigner, just to forever get rid of it.
It turns out that Facebook has the option of video calls. My smartphone is uncharacteristically capiltal, and I saw a call from someone with a foreign name. Surprised by such impudence – I even know people aren't on live, not pre-agreed in the correspondence
Well, I ignored the call, but Jack says, "next time give me the phone!".
Less than 10 minutes, we heard a new call. I gave the mobile to her husband, and she went to the nursery. According to Zhenya, on the other side of the screen sitting naked (!) the man and performed specific actions.
When Jack told me that, I thought I would die of embarrassment over the fact that I am so legkomyslennyj of human life, did not include time filtering of queries and ran into this nightmare.
Why do foreigners add them to friends Russian girlsAnd then I gradually began to reach the goal of all these queries, and Eugene, I also chewed. Yes, it's not "recruitment", as suggested earlier, Jack. This is a virtual-distorted communication via video with women is not like the mentality of women from countries where they live, these worried men. Most likely, their women go in private clothes and not sitting on the Internet, so these people knock on Russian for virtual communication.
Foreigners no matter what status they don't care: you or the marriage. These people are knocking to all in a row with Cyrillic names – perhaps some inattentive (like me) will approve the request.
How to delete recently added friends from FacebookAfter this I, in spite of the lack of time, it became clear your friends list. Fortunately, in Facebook when you open the friends list there is a button "Recently added".
If you click on it, these people are not mixed with normal friends, and in a row.
While I had to manually delete each, I sent a few more messages in the PM. But one was not flowers and kittens, and a porno picture. I thought I was gonna puke (although I am quite a grown woman).
I quickly began to clean the list that I forgot to do screenshots for this post. Removing the last Arab friend and rechecking your friends list, I exhaled. Jack this story took a humorous and sometimes still making fun of my naivete.
Insights
- Perhaps the main conclusion should be more attentive to the approval of queries in social networks. Especially if knocking on a stranger with unusual for a Russian person's name, written in Cyrillic.
- Spammers with names in Cyrillic, of course, too – usually they only harm you in adding a public group. I don't understand why this kind of communities still exist in Facebook. For Blogtori, for example, I created a group where you cannot add a person without asking. We can only offer it to like.
- I noticed that not only I, but many of my friends and acquaintances lightly relate to the queries. Sometimes knocking a man, you see, what do you have 20 mutual friends – normal, respected you, the people of media. And you think, "I am a journalist, press Secretary or PR" and add. A person is a regular spammer. That is simply the existence of common friends – no warranty.
- The only 100% way not to run into perverts and spammers – see every profile to visit the Dominican Republic. It's time consuming, but it is worth remembering my sad experience – I ended up killing a lot of time to clean your friends list. It turns out, saving one half a minute, then I spent two hours.
Author: Victoria Kobzeva
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind - together we change the world! ©
Source: blogtori.wordpress.com/2016/12/01/druzhba-v-facebook/
