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5 Rules for the present and happy love
How to maintain understanding and tenderness in the relationship for years to come?
Of course, when passion overwhelms both of you, you do not notice anyone around, no time to see enough of each other 24 hours a day, you just do not need any rules, tips ... But how to maintain understanding and tenderness in the relationship for years to come?
1. Avoid stereotypical attitudes
Here Ivanov will go to the New Year in Egypt! And you napryazhenka in the family budget ... Oh it one of Egypt, and you stay home, arrange an unusual meeting of the New Year, be creative!
2. Do not try to find flaws in a loved one, take it for what it is
Do not paint yourself a perfect fairy-tale image that does not exist in reality, the sooner you will realize that it is a living man of flesh and blood - the better. This, however, does not mean that you have to endure all of the loved one. Speaking about the problem, not Taita them yourself! Just do not look for qualities in a partner, invented by you.
3. In love, you get as much as give themselves - says the English proverb
However, life is often different: one gives everything and gets nothing in return. If we are talking about building a harmonious family relationship, then do what you like to get in return. Nice words, present, affectionate hugs - all this will make your partner look at the loving gaze and immediately return all handsomely.
4. voice their claims and wishes each other
Staying in the realm of love, we tend to forgive many of the "pranks" to your loved ones. It is not always possible to forget the insult to the end, in the soul can accumulate unforgotten grudges that will eventually throw out in opposition to a loved one. To avoid unpleasant finale, to voice their complaints and suggestions to each other. Then the problem will not destroy your true feelings ...
5. It is not necessary to restrict the freedom of his partner
Both women and men after a few years of marriage are starting to feel a bird in a cage. No matter how strong your relationship is not, do not forget that a loved one - not your property. The man has the right to meet with friends, hiking hunting, fishing, just like his beautiful half can go to hen parties, to organize shopping trips. Do not try to control each other until the end, do not check the incoming calls in another phone, do not rummage through his pockets.
And yet
The secret to a lasting relationship lies precisely in the fact that each of the spouses feel happy and free. Pamper your favorite: a bouquet of flowers on a weekday, refined cuisine for dinner, spicy sms in middle of the day .... You will not regret!
Love one another, not only on holidays: an everyday mission, which should be carried out consistently by both partners. It may be compliments, kissing, hugging, touching, help in household chores ... but anything - if only to once again say, "I love you!"
Of course, when passion overwhelms both of you, you do not notice anyone around, no time to see enough of each other 24 hours a day, you just do not need any rules, tips ... But how to maintain understanding and tenderness in the relationship for years to come?
1. Avoid stereotypical attitudes
Here Ivanov will go to the New Year in Egypt! And you napryazhenka in the family budget ... Oh it one of Egypt, and you stay home, arrange an unusual meeting of the New Year, be creative!
2. Do not try to find flaws in a loved one, take it for what it is
Do not paint yourself a perfect fairy-tale image that does not exist in reality, the sooner you will realize that it is a living man of flesh and blood - the better. This, however, does not mean that you have to endure all of the loved one. Speaking about the problem, not Taita them yourself! Just do not look for qualities in a partner, invented by you.
3. In love, you get as much as give themselves - says the English proverb
However, life is often different: one gives everything and gets nothing in return. If we are talking about building a harmonious family relationship, then do what you like to get in return. Nice words, present, affectionate hugs - all this will make your partner look at the loving gaze and immediately return all handsomely.
4. voice their claims and wishes each other
Staying in the realm of love, we tend to forgive many of the "pranks" to your loved ones. It is not always possible to forget the insult to the end, in the soul can accumulate unforgotten grudges that will eventually throw out in opposition to a loved one. To avoid unpleasant finale, to voice their complaints and suggestions to each other. Then the problem will not destroy your true feelings ...
5. It is not necessary to restrict the freedom of his partner
Both women and men after a few years of marriage are starting to feel a bird in a cage. No matter how strong your relationship is not, do not forget that a loved one - not your property. The man has the right to meet with friends, hiking hunting, fishing, just like his beautiful half can go to hen parties, to organize shopping trips. Do not try to control each other until the end, do not check the incoming calls in another phone, do not rummage through his pockets.
And yet
The secret to a lasting relationship lies precisely in the fact that each of the spouses feel happy and free. Pamper your favorite: a bouquet of flowers on a weekday, refined cuisine for dinner, spicy sms in middle of the day .... You will not regret!
Love one another, not only on holidays: an everyday mission, which should be carried out consistently by both partners. It may be compliments, kissing, hugging, touching, help in household chores ... but anything - if only to once again say, "I love you!"
