The husband began to secretly go to his mother-in-law to eat her cooking, but it became bad for his health.

No matter what you say, relationships between people can sometimes surprise you. No, not even a stupor. Some of them are different, others are different. humaneness It will not allow him to go beyond the limits of sanity. For example, some mothers continue to breastfeed their baby up to 3 years or more. And they don't see it as shameful. And others allow their children to swear in front of them at all, almost from the first grade of school. They say that they do not allow them to restrain their natural energy, their internal currents. No comment at all.



But it's okay when these views are held by young parents. Those who do not yet have experience, and they themselves, not to say that very mature. But when adult men or women start freaking out, there is no longer a specialist. Otherwise, inaudible “bells” can easily turn into very complex and not obvious problems in the future.

You begin to realize that something goes wrong when you dream about your mother-in-law for the second night in a row. In some household nightmare, which is actually even worse, because such “pictures” feel very realistic and completely confusing. It is a pity that my husband cannot understand me and, although he agrees with me through his teeth, still continues to communicate with his mother as if nothing had happened. I haven't seen it in person, but I feel it very well.

Here's the thing. We are a young family without children, a husband and wife married almost a year ago. Both work as much as they can, love each other, and improve their lives. Vitya is very close to me as a person and as a partner. His mother sometimes has mixed feelings. And that's a very soft word.



Before the wedding, there were no other conversations and questions from her other than about the children. When will I have her grandchildren? Maybe I’ll get pregnant first and get married later. It's okay that so hastily, Elena Valeryevna is ready to sit with the baby at least for a day. And so on and so forth. Not only did she tell me this, but also to my future husband. But Victor has known his mother for a long time, and for me it was a curiosity to be honest.

And at one point we both got so tired of it that at one of the family meetings Vitya, even in slightly raised tones, forbade the mother to ask us about the children. As it is, it will be. We still have a lot of work to do, we have to build a career, deal with domesticity and so on. Isn't that logical? So my mother-in-law calmed down on this. Well, at least I didn't hear any more questions from her about my future children.



But some time passed and the curious Elena Valeryevna again took up her own. And now her interests included not minor descendants, but the mood of her only son. How does he feel, is he sick, full or hungry? And so on the last of the questions, at some point, she kind of stuck.

I came to my house once or twice a week. She brought porridge, patties, potatoes, stew and similar dishes of home cuisine. “It’s made with your own hands,” she likes to say. But if in the case of personal questions, Vity supported me, then he literally jumped on his mother’s cooking every time after her next departure. Thank you for waiting.

We're a modern couple. And I believe that our rights and responsibilities should also be distributed according to the spirit of the times. I also have a job, and I want to know that my husband is not disabled. So cook yourself something for dinner, or even breakfast, he should have enough strength and skills. I make my own diet dishes. And if the husband comes later than usual, and even hungry – call delivery. And for a long time this scheme worked, and I was quite satisfied.



But now I see changes in my husband’s behavior, in his thinking and even in his appearance. Because of my mother's home kitchen, he became noticeably fat. He's not 32 years old yet, and I've always liked his sharpened figure. Then the smell. No, well, Viti doesn't smell, that's not what I'm saying. But you can not put hot soups or chops in the refrigerator right away. So the kitchen is filled with all the flavors it can until the dishes cool. And then the refrigerator starts to smell. It's not nice to inhale all that fragrance before breakfast.

I asked Vitya to stop her mother and stop eating pigeons and dumplings on an industrial scale. Instead, as I guessed, he started going to her in person and eating up there in secret from me. After six months of such a diet, it will turn into a real sperm whale, I can already see this. Even snoring.



I had to take the initiative into my own hands for a while. I met my mother-in-law to talk as a woman to a woman. I wish I had never thought of this idea at all. We met in neutral territory, had coffee, talked about different things. Well, I tried to start the topic that Vitya has recently become very fat, so it’s even surprising that he seems to eat everything at home that he always does. How did that happen?

And Elena Valerievna tells me, they say, yes, he goes to her, his mother, to eat. She doesn’t see it as “he doesn’t eat at home.” And I just wanted to tell her that her son is a grown man and now I'm in charge of his diet, she added something else. Like, since he lives from hand to hand with me, it is not surprising that he simply does not have enough strength to have sex with me. “What children are there when there is no health and it grows in the stomach.”



I somehow ended the meeting, trying not to say anything offensive towards my mother-in-law. But I was holding myself back. We are still together with Vitaly, live very friendly. Although I know he goes to his mother from time to time, I don't know, to eat cakes. As if to another woman... Tell me, please, is it that I started to be jealous of his mother or what? Or I have a cuckoo now. Seriously?!