The whole family persuaded Svetlana to marry Igor, but they did not know one important detail.

Marriage with a woman with a child in our society, few people consider a successful party. It can be difficult to find a partner who is willing to take responsibility. This is what the heroine of our history faced. And even when she found a decent man, there was still one unpleasant nuance.



Today's edition. "Site" She shares her story with you and asks you for wise advice.

I think a lot of women know my story. But maybe someone knows what I should do. But everything in order. I'm 36. I've never been married, but I have a five-year-old son. How so? It's just a story. I was in a serious relationship, everything was fine, but then I got pregnant. It turned out that only I needed the baby. My age was good, so I decided to give birth.



After that, my son and I are alone. I gave all my attention to him. I didn't care about being alone. I've arranged our lives well. I have a small apartment that my parents helped me with. My son goes to the garden, which is almost in our yard. And my office is 5 minutes from home. I'm good and I'm good. I thought that would always be the case.

But when I got to work, things changed. That's where I met Igor. He is an incredible man: very caring, courteous and understanding. With him, I felt like I could be loved. I realized how bad it was without a close friend. A month ago, Igor arranged a romantic date for us and proposed to me. But I still haven't answered him.



My beloved man, I shared this news with my family. Everyone says I need to agree and not even think. After all, Igor is a beautiful man who is ready to marry a woman with a child. Where else can I find one? And that's not far from the truth. My mother and sister don’t know the whole truth.



When our relationship developed into something serious, Igor told me one thing that haunts me. He told me honestly that he would never love my son as his own. He wants us to have children together. And that's what I'd like. I love my son and want the best for him. Then, for some reason, I decided that everything would get better over time. But as time passed, Igor showed no interest in my Bear. Although I can't be mad at Igor, because he was honest with me from the beginning.



Now this situation worries me even more. After the wedding, Igor and I will start living together. How will he treat Misha? How will Misha feel if his stepfather is indifferent to him? What will happen when we have more children?

And every day, all these issues are more and more bothering me. On the one hand, you do not want the child to feel deprived. On the other hand, it is unlikely that I will ever meet a man who agrees to marry a woman with a child. What am I supposed to do?



Editorial opinion The woman got into a difficult situation. I would advise her to end this relationship. She will always be sad and sad for her son. We don't think it's worth it. In addition, Svetlana is still a young woman and will definitely find a worthy man. What do you think of that?