My mother-in-law lied about me being discharged from the hospital, she still sulks.

After discharge from the hospital, any new mom will just want to rest. You have to come to your senses and start adapting to the new reality of having a baby. Tatiana wanted her family not to disturb her. But her mother-in-law decided she knew better than her daughter-in-law. The appearance of the baby in the family led to a serious scandal. Why this happened, read further in the article.



After discharge from the hospital, my husband and I have been planning a pregnancy for a long time, preparing for it seriously. And when I finally saw the cherished two stripes on the test, I cried with happiness with my husband. I began to imagine the future life, our baby or baby. Everything was fine until my mother-in-law intervened in my dreams.



She started teaching me how to eat during pregnancy, what to do, and even how to dress. I always politely refused her advice, saying it was my experience and I would live it my way. And Alina Mikhailovna always grumbled under her nose that I do not understand anything.

However, at some point, my mother-in-law calmed down and fell behind me. As it became known later, she accumulated all her strength to begin preparations for the birth of her grandson. My husband and I a few months before the birth told Alina Mikhailovna that after discharge from the hospital to see never want.



We do not want to organize a holiday and call all relatives. I'm going to have to come to my senses, get used to my new status. My husband, too, of course. Especially since he will be present at the birth.

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But my mother-in-law just waved. Everything will be fine, you just have to trust her. We kind of hushed it up. And when I had already given birth, my mother-in-law began to ask my son about the day of discharge. I insisted he tell her the wrong date. I just didn't want to meet a crowd of relatives at the entrance to the hospital. I wanted peace and quiet. Don't I deserve it?

In general, my husband listened to me and lied to my mother. We got home on Friday and my mother-in-law said it was Saturday. I remember that screaming into the phone. Alina Mikhailovna calls in the morning and yells in the wrong voice that we ruined her whole holiday. Can you imagine?



She ordered a cake, and bought balls, and cooked a bunch of dishes to arrange a feast in the evening. And most importantly, her mother-in-law has already invited everyone to celebrate at her house in the evening. When I told her that I had no power to communicate with anyone, she began to resent. I wasn’t the only one who had a baby, there’s nothing so terrible about it. Especially not yesterday.

Imagine the shock I was in. And then the mother-in-law said that she wanted to see her grandson as soon as possible. I couldn’t stand it and told her everything I thought. It is not for her to decide for us when and with whom to celebrate. And that she'll see her grandson when my husband and I let her come visit us. We will not take our baby anywhere, let alone celebrate his birth with a crowd of relatives, many of whom I do not even communicate with.



Since then, it has been 2 months, and the mother-in-law is still sulking. Her husband calls her almost every day. We've invited her to visit more than once. And she doesn't come, she says we hurt her a lot. We are ungrateful, we do not appreciate her.

To be honest, I have no desire to be manipulated. I won’t ask her to come and see my grandson. She's an adult. Let him deal with his own cockroaches in his head. Am I right?

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? People of the older generation sometimes think that they are always right in everything, because they have more experience. But in our time, this is no longer an argument. No wonder they say that they do not climb into a foreign monastery with their own charter. Alina Mikhailovna should respect the opinion and decisions of her son and daughter-in-law. I don't blame them for the fight. And you?