About renting an apartment, we were silent in a rag, but my sister accidentally found out everything.

It happens that our relatives often think that we owe them something. Family matters are complicated in principle, try to figure it out. The heroine of today’s history is trying to figure it out. She told us about an older sister who thinks she owes her something.



Editorial "Site" She shares this story with you to get your opinion on this.

In my own carelessness, I am now in a difficult situation. I am between two fires: my sister and my husband. And it seems that when I decide what to do, I will have a hard time. Maybe you can tell me what to do.

To begin with, I have an older sister, Luda. I must say that she has disliked me since childhood. My parents always seemed to pay more attention to me. So she often spoiled my toys, lied about me to her parents. The problems did not stop in adulthood.



When my current husband proposed to me, she just freaked out. After I introduced the groom to the family, Lyuda broke off the chain. She started getting hysterical, saying I was still young. I was 21 at the time and she was 26. She walked like a cloud at the wedding. And then I kept saying we'd get divorced in six months. Maybe she was so jealous. Don't know. Despite all this, she is an important person to me. Family.



Our marriage, despite the predictions of my sister, did not break up. We've been together for 6 years. My sister got married too, though not for love. I thought she did it just to prove she was as good as me. In 5 years she gave birth to three children. She and her husband live in Odessa, in a one-room apartment, which her husband inherited. I don’t know why I had three children if I couldn’t afford them. But this is her decision, I will not judge.

I wouldn’t even start talking about it if it wasn’t for me. But everything in order. My husband and I moved to Kiev after the wedding. His mother left us an apartment and moved in with her fiancé. About a year ago, my husband’s grandfather changed his apartment. He moved to the dacha himself. Apartment in a good area, so it was decided to rent it.



We were very happy about this, because it significantly increased our income. We tried not to advertise the fact that we have an apartment. But one day I told my mom about it and she told her sister. After a couple of days, my sister called and said, “Why didn’t you say you had a vacant apartment?” We're in trouble right now, we could just move to the capital.”



I was taken aback and didn't know what to say. She kept listening to her move into our apartment. And I get it, he's a native. But they have their own apartment, and about which city is calmer, you can still argue. In addition, she is not going to pay for the apartment. When I told my husband about it, he was not happy about it. He doesn't want to hear about the older sister in our apartment.

And I get it, it's actually his apartment. Although I'm a little upset that he didn't even try to sympathize with my family. The sister never stops calling and hinting that they are ready to move. And I don't know what to do now. Which side to choose?



The opinion of the editorial office of the Heroine of our history was in a difficult situation. It's hard to choose between husband and sister. However, it seems to us that the older sister is acting too brazenly. She could ask if it was comfortable. And so she just decided she was moving out, and she wasn't even trying to take care of her younger sister. But at this difficult time we need to help each other. What do you think?