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Sneaky sister plans to take the apartment from 65-year-old mother
It’s great when everyone in the family trusts each other. But it also happens that the water begins to muddy native, but nevertheless trickster. There would be some small thing, you could be calm about it, and so we are talking about real estate. In fact, we have quite a heartwarming story here, which we definitely want to tell.
Editorial "Site" I wonder why people are so insincere. After all, all issues can be resolved peacefully diplomatically, it is not necessary to look for options when you have to cheat. I wonder what would motivate people to make such decisions. However, we suggest you make an assessment yourself.
Not so long ago my mother got worse, got sick. Clearly someone had to look after her. A sister who lives in a nearby town was called. My family and I moved to the city a long time ago. I have a younger sister, but I already have one. adult. We have two, but also teenagers, going to school. My husband and I focused on our career first.
Probably not. Anyway, my mom's sick, her sister usually visits, and my husband and I are trying to handle it financially. Obviously, we have more income, not like our sister in a provincial town. I can’t come here often because my mother and sister are far away. This time my mother went to the hospital.
Of course, my husband and I paid for all the treatment, I flew in for a week, and later my husband came. My mother came out and my sister said, ‘Let’s go. I'll take her home.I'll look after you for a month or more until it gets better. And then take her home. In general, this idea seemed reasonable to us, we still left the money for my sister and went to the capital.
And about a week later, my sister and I had another phone conversation. She calls me, saying that since I took my mother, I will always look after her. Let him stay with me all the time. But you do realize that whoever looks after mom should own the apartment. Why don't you tell her to give me a gift because I'm a little uncomfortable?
I, of course, marveled at the sister's words and say, like, sister, and did not you already begin to divide the inheritance? Mommy. only 65 years, not ninety. Now she will recover completely, and will go home - it is too early to think that there will look after her or not. Give Mom a straw, I'll talk to her, I'll ask her how she feels.
But my sister said my mom is resting now, so I'd better talk to her later. I agreed, and the conversation somehow hushed up. And then I turned around again, until my sister called again a week later. And I told my mom it was getting worse again. I couldn’t talk to her again because my sister said that my mother had taken the pills and was sleeping. In fact, she took her phone so no one would bother her.
And again talk about the fact that the mother will necessarily need to look after, it would be a gift. Then I agreed to think for a day, and the next morning my husband and I were at my sister’s door. What do we do? We ring the doorbell, and there is a picture: opens a cheerful and cheerful and even beeping with joy. We didn't say we were coming! It was like a pleasant surprise to her. My sister looked annoyed. I decided not to tell my mom anything.
She asked me to take her home because she missed her and the cat has been hanging out with her neighbor for a month. Turns out the sister son to marry And that's how I squeeze my mom's apartment. Well, at least it's dishonest, I could talk to my mom myself. And now I'm offended, we're not invited to the wedding. What nonsense! Anyway, okay. The main thing is that my mother is doing well.”
Be sure to write in the comments about what you think about this. Was it really worth talking to my mom to leave the apartment to my grandson, or did the older sister do the right thing, not letting the younger one implement her seemingly pleasant plan? We are waiting for your opinion in our discussion!
Worst of all, when relatives cheat and even then offend you. This is what you do when you have one. trickster? Read our article on whether to share a parental home with a sister who hasn't appeared on the horizon for twenty-five years. Thank you for staying with us!
Editorial "Site" I wonder why people are so insincere. After all, all issues can be resolved peacefully diplomatically, it is not necessary to look for options when you have to cheat. I wonder what would motivate people to make such decisions. However, we suggest you make an assessment yourself.
Not so long ago my mother got worse, got sick. Clearly someone had to look after her. A sister who lives in a nearby town was called. My family and I moved to the city a long time ago. I have a younger sister, but I already have one. adult. We have two, but also teenagers, going to school. My husband and I focused on our career first.
Probably not. Anyway, my mom's sick, her sister usually visits, and my husband and I are trying to handle it financially. Obviously, we have more income, not like our sister in a provincial town. I can’t come here often because my mother and sister are far away. This time my mother went to the hospital.
Of course, my husband and I paid for all the treatment, I flew in for a week, and later my husband came. My mother came out and my sister said, ‘Let’s go. I'll take her home.I'll look after you for a month or more until it gets better. And then take her home. In general, this idea seemed reasonable to us, we still left the money for my sister and went to the capital.
And about a week later, my sister and I had another phone conversation. She calls me, saying that since I took my mother, I will always look after her. Let him stay with me all the time. But you do realize that whoever looks after mom should own the apartment. Why don't you tell her to give me a gift because I'm a little uncomfortable?
I, of course, marveled at the sister's words and say, like, sister, and did not you already begin to divide the inheritance? Mommy. only 65 years, not ninety. Now she will recover completely, and will go home - it is too early to think that there will look after her or not. Give Mom a straw, I'll talk to her, I'll ask her how she feels.
But my sister said my mom is resting now, so I'd better talk to her later. I agreed, and the conversation somehow hushed up. And then I turned around again, until my sister called again a week later. And I told my mom it was getting worse again. I couldn’t talk to her again because my sister said that my mother had taken the pills and was sleeping. In fact, she took her phone so no one would bother her.
And again talk about the fact that the mother will necessarily need to look after, it would be a gift. Then I agreed to think for a day, and the next morning my husband and I were at my sister’s door. What do we do? We ring the doorbell, and there is a picture: opens a cheerful and cheerful and even beeping with joy. We didn't say we were coming! It was like a pleasant surprise to her. My sister looked annoyed. I decided not to tell my mom anything.
She asked me to take her home because she missed her and the cat has been hanging out with her neighbor for a month. Turns out the sister son to marry And that's how I squeeze my mom's apartment. Well, at least it's dishonest, I could talk to my mom myself. And now I'm offended, we're not invited to the wedding. What nonsense! Anyway, okay. The main thing is that my mother is doing well.”
Be sure to write in the comments about what you think about this. Was it really worth talking to my mom to leave the apartment to my grandson, or did the older sister do the right thing, not letting the younger one implement her seemingly pleasant plan? We are waiting for your opinion in our discussion!
Worst of all, when relatives cheat and even then offend you. This is what you do when you have one. trickster? Read our article on whether to share a parental home with a sister who hasn't appeared on the horizon for twenty-five years. Thank you for staying with us!
I do not spend extra money, I clean any outdated dirt, plaque and bad smells in the house with soda.
Sneaky sister plans to take the apartment from 65-year-old mother