What is the meaning of life with a man if he does not provide

If you want to be with your loved one as long as possible, share life with him, raise children, then with age this romance disappears. Women who have built a career and earned their own housing by the age of 40, do not see the point of building a serious relationship, given the lifestyle of a man. Many prefer a guest marriage, and some even believe that loneliness is better than a man who can not feed himself.



Somehow, couples intuitively come to start living together. But increasingly, opinions diverge. That’s because a woman who is used to living alone doesn’t want to cook dinner every day for a man who eats for seven. It seems illogical that a man earns on a par with a woman and does not want to share the duties that in society are called female.



So it is not surprising that a woman wants to be with her either a wealthy man or someone who earns more than her. In extreme cases, a caring and compliant husband who does not mind washing dishes and washing his socks. It just so happens that the material component is important for a stable and healthy relationship.



But it is customary that we consider men as breadwinners, and women as guardians of the hearth. But if a woman is her own breadwinner, what is the point of keeping her partner? Over time, the most gentle romance turns into mutual irritation and shifting duties on each other. Reproaches, quarrels, division of money and unwanted vacation.



Previously, people married, only then came together, because it was indecent to meet and indulge in carnal pleasures outside marriage. Today, everyone is for himself. Good or bad, everyone decides for themselves. Some people are comfortable sharing their family budget and doing household chores together, while others do not want to sacrifice their freedom for the sake of relationships.



The paradox is that both a wealthy man and one who cannot feed himself and his wife will behave the same way when they come from work. Both men believe they deserve a freshly cooked dinner, hot tea and caresses in bed. Even if the wife worked equally, and then even after work served her husband and fed the children. Why do you need a husband like that?



We all want to feel the support and care of our partner. Someone shows this care, paying the bills, someone cooks. It does not matter whether it is a man or a woman, male or female. It's important to be able to negotiate.



We are tired of this injustice and decades-old stereotypes about male and female roles in society. Every person is different. Someone likes to mess around the stove and tie pigtails to children, and someone, like any man, just wants hot tea and stretch his legs on the sofa. Isn't it? Do you think a man should make more money than his wife or does it matter?