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Found in the cell phone 63-year-old husband correspondence with another
“I recently learned that my husband was texting another woman. I do not know what to do now, because I am almost 60 years old, our reader Valentina Gennadyevna said. The heroine worries whether her beloved man cheats on her. However, the thought of such a late divorce bothers her even more. To what decision came a woman and whether to put an end to his personal life in adulthood, read further in the article.
My husband is texting a woman 35 years ago I married the best man in the world. When we met, I was 22 years old, Nicholas – 25. He literally carried me in his arms, so strong were our feelings. In our marriage we had two children: the daughter of Sveta and the son of Antosha. They have long since left their parents’ nest and created their own families. For the past 10 years, my husband and I have been living together again.
And everything was just fine until one moment I saw my husband texting another woman. This happened a year ago by accident. I never look at his phone because I trust him. But one day he left his cell phone on the couch and took a shower. Suddenly, the phone screen lit up, and there was a notification of an unread message from some Angela.
My husband said it was his classmate. They used to communicate closely, but life scattered them around different countries. So she came to her hometown and decided to write to my husband. Nicholas assured me that it was just a friendly correspondence. But something suggested the case smelled fried.
I hushed up the subject, did not want to swear and suspect my husband of anything. A year later, however, the situation repeated itself. Angela didn't disappear from her husband's life as he promised. So I decided to talk to his mom. I wondered how close they were at school.
It turns out there was no Angela in my husband's class. It turns out that Nicholas just lied to me. But why? Not kids, I’m 60 years old! I would accept any truth if it were sincere. Now I just don’t know what to do next.
I should probably leave, but I can't leave my house when I'm old. I am afraid to go to the children, and I do not want to pull them again. They have their own lives, their own worries and problems. I can’t imagine how I can start my life from scratch. I have never had a man other than Nicholas. He's all mine!
Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions. I just need to talk to my husband honestly. But I'm scared. It's scary that he'll say he's actually been lying and he's had a woman on the side for years. I would never have thought that at such a mature age I would face such problems.
From the editorial office of Valentin Gennadyevna right. In order to dot all the “i”, you need to talk to your husband. Perhaps his mother (and she, most likely, already at a rather respectable age) is confused. In addition, somehow stupid to make guesses and draw conclusions behind the back of a loved one.
Even if the heroine's husband lied to her, it would be better if she found out the truth. Who knows, maybe he's just texting another woman. There was no more innocent dialogue.
50 or 60 years is not a sentence. People get divorced, married, and married when they're very mature, and that's perfectly normal. Let’s share this story with a happy ending!
What would you do in the place of Valentina Gennadyevna? Boldly share your ideas in the comments!
My husband is texting a woman 35 years ago I married the best man in the world. When we met, I was 22 years old, Nicholas – 25. He literally carried me in his arms, so strong were our feelings. In our marriage we had two children: the daughter of Sveta and the son of Antosha. They have long since left their parents’ nest and created their own families. For the past 10 years, my husband and I have been living together again.
And everything was just fine until one moment I saw my husband texting another woman. This happened a year ago by accident. I never look at his phone because I trust him. But one day he left his cell phone on the couch and took a shower. Suddenly, the phone screen lit up, and there was a notification of an unread message from some Angela.
My husband said it was his classmate. They used to communicate closely, but life scattered them around different countries. So she came to her hometown and decided to write to my husband. Nicholas assured me that it was just a friendly correspondence. But something suggested the case smelled fried.
I hushed up the subject, did not want to swear and suspect my husband of anything. A year later, however, the situation repeated itself. Angela didn't disappear from her husband's life as he promised. So I decided to talk to his mom. I wondered how close they were at school.
It turns out there was no Angela in my husband's class. It turns out that Nicholas just lied to me. But why? Not kids, I’m 60 years old! I would accept any truth if it were sincere. Now I just don’t know what to do next.
I should probably leave, but I can't leave my house when I'm old. I am afraid to go to the children, and I do not want to pull them again. They have their own lives, their own worries and problems. I can’t imagine how I can start my life from scratch. I have never had a man other than Nicholas. He's all mine!
Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions. I just need to talk to my husband honestly. But I'm scared. It's scary that he'll say he's actually been lying and he's had a woman on the side for years. I would never have thought that at such a mature age I would face such problems.
From the editorial office of Valentin Gennadyevna right. In order to dot all the “i”, you need to talk to your husband. Perhaps his mother (and she, most likely, already at a rather respectable age) is confused. In addition, somehow stupid to make guesses and draw conclusions behind the back of a loved one.
Even if the heroine's husband lied to her, it would be better if she found out the truth. Who knows, maybe he's just texting another woman. There was no more innocent dialogue.
50 or 60 years is not a sentence. People get divorced, married, and married when they're very mature, and that's perfectly normal. Let’s share this story with a happy ending!
What would you do in the place of Valentina Gennadyevna? Boldly share your ideas in the comments!
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