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Modern. open-mindedness It's different than it used to be. The generation of our grandparents was alien to sharing experiences and emotions. Many were afraid to show individuality for fear of judgment. Today, almost every person boldly talks about their feelings in social networks. And during new acquaintances, I am ready to immediately talk about how he lives. But is it worth it?



Editorial "Site" I suggest you talk about it. Let’s talk about why being too open to the outside world can make you vulnerable.

The world of open people nowadays has really become fashionable to be an open person. This is especially true for bloggers who share all the details of their personal lives with their followers. Television is also not far behind. Think about how many different shows have come out in recent years. Heroes of TV shows talk about their problems and experiences. Many people are ready to argue with loved ones live, without thinking about the consequences of such actions.



People used to interact with each other very differently. They were more secretive and weighed every word they said. Fashion for sincerity, so to speak, began to appear with the development of social networks.

The relationship between parents and children has also changed. Modern moms and dads try to educate their child in such a way that the child completely trusts them. This means that the younger generation from an early age begins to think in other categories. For many, parents become friends who can tell absolutely anything.



On the one hand, this is great, because this behavior can save family members from possible problems in the future. However, at the same time, this can be the main cause of difficulties. A person becomes too trusting, because he easily blurts out everything about his life to the first person he meets. But people often don’t like excessive psychological intimacy.

There are things you shouldn’t tell other people about. Especially when it comes to people you see for the first time. First of all, you don't know who you're dealing with. What if someone uses your words against you? Secondly, pouring out the soul to the first person you meet is at least strange.



So, for example, you do not need to share details of your personal life, as well as talk about sores that you have experienced. Another taboo topic is parents. You may have had a difficult childhood. Indeed, it happens that the relationship between parents and children is far from ideal. But no matter how bad your family is, you can’t put dirt on them while talking to another person.

The interviewer may not understand you, because he himself has never faced such problems. And both of you will find yourself in the most awkward position, as the further course of the dialogue will come to a standstill. If you need to really pour out your soul, you better go to a psychologist. He will definitely be interested in understanding you and helping you get out of a difficult situation.



If you constantly tell everyone around you about your life, you can bring trouble to yourself. Usually, such conversations are quite resource-consuming. You spend your energy and inner strength, but you don’t get the same amount back. Even a seemingly close friend can’t always share all the joy or pain you feel.

Of course, all this does not mean that you need to lead a reclusive lifestyle and become a secretive person. Just be vigilant and watch what you tell and who you tell. Personal life, health, relationships with parents and financial situation are not the things you should talk about the first person you meet.



Try to put yourself in the place of the interlocutor when you want to pour out your soul to someone. If you feel that you need to speak out here and now, seek help from a specialist. Believe me, this is the only way out that will not provoke other problems.

I wonder what you think about fashion for sincerity? Do you like our world of open people?