Husband behaves nightmarishly all my pregnancy, I lie on maintenance for 11 days, relatives of the spouse did not even come to check

What to do if during pregnancy Husband doesn't want to help wife? And there are those who simply abandon their spouse in the most difficult period of her life. These problems faced Sonya, the heroine of today's history. Now she lies on the preservation and is trying to make the right decision. Whether a woman will be able to file for divorce and what her husband thinks about it, read further in the article.



My husband was pregnant for 11 days. During this time, none of the husband’s relatives called, visited, brought flowers or food. They just don't care! However, I have long been used to the fact that I just do not need relatives Grisha. And he seems to be, too.

We got married 2 years ago. We didn’t have a home, so I moved in with my husband and his parents. From the very first day of my stay in that apartment, I was constantly attacked by my mother-in-law. She was critical of everything I did.



At first, Grisha defended me, and then sided with my mother. Apparently, she managed to turn him against me. The husband argued his claims very simply: "You live in someone else's house, you are not the hostess here." So be kind to do what you are asked to do.”

I did not want to argue with my husband, and there was no point in it. I thought I loved Grisha, so once again I never climbed. It was a great feeling that I couldn’t get pregnant for a long time. Actually, my husband and I did. But a month later, I lost my baby.

Endless trips to the doctors began, on which we spent an incredible amount of money. Against this background, my husband constantly quarreled with me, blamed me for everything. As a result, I was able to get pregnant again. I was afraid of losing my baby again, so I took more care of myself.

My mother-in-law didn't like that I stopped cleaning and cooking. Scandals again, screams again. I told my husband that I didn’t want to live in such an environment, packed my bags and went to see my parents. Grisha didn't hold me.



When it came time to find out the sex of the baby, my husband went to the hospital with me. “You’re going to have a girl,” the doctor said. From what I heard I just cried, I all my adult life dreamed of a daughter. My husband was angry about the news. We came out of the office and I heard, I need a son, heir! What are we gonna do with the girl?

I had neither the strength nor the desire to fight with Grisha, so I just went home. My husband disappeared after that meeting. He stopped answering his phone and never showed up. I've been thinking about getting a divorce for a long time. But then I decided that this was the only way out.



He called his mother-in-law (Grisha did not take the phone). She offered to voluntarily give up the child and give me a divorce. She replied, “You, my dear, were born first.” Then we'll see.

What do we do next? I tried not to be nervous, but the baby feels everything. So I ended up at the hospital for safekeeping. My husband did not help me financially or morally. Although I never asked for the latter, I somehow managed.



I resent Grisha for his indifference to everything. He's gonna be a father! I just called, asked me to let you know when I'm having a baby. I wonder if he'll come to see his daughter and give her up if he just doesn't like her? I don't get it.

My parents want a divorce, and I understand. But at the same time, I want my daughter to have a father. I don't know what to do.

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Marriage isn't easy. Before entering into a family relationship, you need to be confident in the man you are marrying. This includes financial issues and pregnancy planning. Apparently, Sonya went down the aisle, not knowing Gregory one hundred percent.



It is said that a friend is known in trouble, and a husband in sorrow and joy. The hero of this story will have to make a difficult choice. What do you think she'll do?