Top secret: 10 phrases you should not say to your husband Never.

Often quarreling You are born out of a misunderstanding: you say one thing and your partner hears another. And here we go! After all, it has long been proven that men and women from different planets, psychologically certainly. Communication between lovers plays a huge role, so you need to think carefully about what you say. After all, severe-looking men are very impressionable and touchy.



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Psychologists have long tried to derive a formula. perfect. I haven’t found it yet, but I have some good advice. A survey of representatives of the stronger sex showed which phrases unnerve them the most. Editorial "Site" 10 phrases that you should not say to your beloved man, if you do not want to spoil the mood for him or yourself.

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1. “Why didn’t you say happy birthday to my mom again?” ?
   Your mother is the most precious person in your life. But your man does not have to keep in mind birthdays and other important dates of your relatives. You better remind him that it would be nice to congratulate his mother-in-law. Or put a reminder on his phone. But to bother him with this question is not worth it.
   
   
   
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2. My ex-husband was better than you.
   Such a phrase, at least, will lead to a serious scandal. Or maybe even get divorced. Men are proud and egotistical creatures, so to hear that someone is better, let alone his predecessor, is a nightmare. This phrase cuts a man’s ears and heart with a knife. But you yourself understand perfectly well what would turn such a statement in your address.
   
   
   
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3. “You don't notice anything. I cut my hair and you don’t say a word.
   You made a classic bean out of an elongated carriage. Of course, you are happy, your eyes are playing in a new way, your neck is open. But for a man, you were a beautiful woman, and you were. They are not obsessed with details at all. The hair is the same color, that’s fine. The same applies to new clothes, the shape of eyebrows, the color of the nail polish. He can only notice radical changes.
   
   
   
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4. Here's Tankin's husband is so economical (caring, smart, gave a fur coat, gives a car ...)
   This phrase is contraindicated to pronounce even in the heat of the most fierce quarrel. You want to put someone in opposition to him, thereby forcing him to do something. But the effect is the opposite. After hearing it, he won't hit a finger out of pride. Or maybe even say that if you like Tankin's husband, then go ahead.
   
   
   
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5. "You're fat (low, clobber, bald...)"
   There are no perfect people. Someone has a big belly, and someone is very bony. Think about how hurtful it would be to hear something about your shortcomings. So does a man. They just don’t talk out loud about what bothers them in their appearance. Be able to choose the right words: do not criticize, but inspire.
   
   
   
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6. “My friends don’t like you (my colleagues, my sisters).”
   Delusional, but a lot of women say that. Did you choose a man for yourself or your girlfriends? What do they care what kind of husband you have? Let them go about their lives. Besides, for every man, the girlfriend of his beloved woman is mounds, witches and the like. That's why he doesn't say anything like that.
   
   
   
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7. "I don't want to give birth."
   There is a category of women who turn the soul inside out of a man, but force to marry. But when it comes to children, "I'm not ready yet," "I don't want to have children now." A man doesn't understand that. After all, the classical family assumes the presence of children. Every man wants children, because this is his continuation. These phrases often cause divorce.
   
   
   
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8. I'm going to my mom!
   A classic ending to many quarrels. You think he's gonna stop you like that, hug you. But in fact, he thinks: go on all 4 sides. If you've decided, take action. Ultimatums have not yet inspired any man to act. And if it concerns the mother-in-law, then his brain automatically ceases to perceive information.
   
   
   
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9. "I'm not talking to you."
   With this phrase, you further aggravate the conflict. Instead of solving a problem, you play silent. You will be the first to talk to your husband.
   
   
   
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10. “Do you have another woman? ?
    Jealousy flatters men, but in small doses. This phrase expresses distrust of the partner. There are truly exemplary husbands who do not cheat. But if you keep pestering him with this question, the mistress will show up. You're programming it yourself.
    
    
    
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Inspire a man, not drink him. And then he'll make you the happiest woman in the world. Of course, there are many more phrases, but eliminate these 10 from your speech and the relationship will be much better. Men should be aware of phrases that women should not say.

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