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Psychologists told what not to do for men
No one knows the ideal relationship between a man and a woman. But psychologists have long been talking about the main womanhoodWhat she does in a romantic relationship. No, they're not hurting her partner. They prevent her from being happy in a couple or marriage.
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Editorial "Site" He will tell you how not to be a woman with a man. We collected 8 typical mistakes, making which the fair sex either ruin relationships or turn men into rags.
How to behave correctly with a man
In a relationship, it is important to take the right role. You're a woman and he's a man. And in no case should you take on the role of a partner. Of course, everyone is different and builds relationships the way they like. But by avoiding these 8 mistakes, you’ll be able to experience less frustration or look at your behavior differently.
Tell us in the comments if you agree with the opinion of psychologists about romantic relationships. Share a useful article with your friends on social networks!
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Editorial "Site" He will tell you how not to be a woman with a man. We collected 8 typical mistakes, making which the fair sex either ruin relationships or turn men into rags.
How to behave correctly with a man
- Pity.
Listening to and understanding your partner is important. But under no circumstances do you show pity. A man is a winner, and your pity only offends him. Besides, you're cooling his conqueror's ardor, and he's probably feeling like a little boy. Therefore, it is better to support your partner in a difficult situation and give advice, or even better, turn everything into a joke and inspire new achievements. You're a woman, not a nanny.
DepositPhotos - Feminism
No one forbids you to occupy high positions, to be the best among the best, but at home be a gentle and weak woman. Your husband is your support and love, not a competitor to fight for the championship. The male ego is very fragile and the resentment is strong. You do not need to devote it too much to your achievements, and even with a slight mockery. The same applies to disputes and teachings. You may be right, but what good is it if you're unhappy?
DepositPhotos - A radical change of character
There are no perfect people, but often women, after a wave of dazzling love, try to remake their man. In order for a person to change his character and habits, it takes a lot of time or a stressful (tragic) situation. You will swear, you will cry, he will freak out. And so on. Not that you’ll like the updated version any more. If a man wants to make concessions for you, he will. Just calmly express your views and requirements, or better – argue. Also, psychologists do not recommend changing your principles and beliefs for the sake of union with your loved one, as sooner or later this will negatively affect you.
DepositPhotos - A purposeless existence
You have to have a passion or a career that doesn’t depend on your man. Yeah, you don't have to fight for primacy, but you have to be interesting. If you give up the future, there is a risk of becoming unhappy and unrealized. For example, you went on maternity leave and completely immersed in everyday life. There is money and you can’t go back to work. But you won't have anything to say, your eyes won't burn. You'll just become uninteresting, even to yourself.
DepositPhotos - Lies.
Lies ruin relationships. Never lie to your man. If you really need to hide something for his own good, try to sidestep the situation or do not participate in what will lead to lies in the future. And living in fear that your secret will be discovered is not a good prospect.
DepositPhotos - Don't be mommy.
Yes, there are infantile eternal sons who are looking for themselves not just a woman, but a mother. If you are satisfied with this role, we have nothing against it. But the relationship should be loving, not parental. A man can be helped when he needs to, but don’t put all his problems on his fragile shoulders and take care of him like a small child.
DepositPhotos - Change appearance
Let's say you're skinny and your man asks you to get better. Or you're a brunette and he just loves redheads and wants to see you like that. 80% of women do what a man says. And the right thing to do is make a decision for yourself. You should live in harmony with your appearance, not adjust it to requirements. If you’re interested in experimenting, accept change. But if you have to break your vision of beauty, it is better to refuse.
DepositPhotos - Concealment
To build happy relationshipDo not hide your grievances and talk about everything in time. Clear up misunderstandings, don't leave something unsaid. You may think you'll hide your grudge today and everything will be fine tomorrow. But no, it's all going on, and eventually it's going to turn into a grand conflict that you provoked, or into isolation. It's hard to say what's worse.
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In a relationship, it is important to take the right role. You're a woman and he's a man. And in no case should you take on the role of a partner. Of course, everyone is different and builds relationships the way they like. But by avoiding these 8 mistakes, you’ll be able to experience less frustration or look at your behavior differently.
Tell us in the comments if you agree with the opinion of psychologists about romantic relationships. Share a useful article with your friends on social networks!
Photo by depositphotos preview.