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Which companions choose promising suitors
Nowadays, no one is surprised at the sight of a couple in love, in which a man is much older than his chosen one. There is also an inverse age difference, although this is less common. Moreover, such “unequal” pairs are increasingly seen both among media people and among ordinary people.
And today's edition. "Site" try to evaluate How age difference affects relationships And why is it so difficult for modern men to build harmonious relationships with their peers? Are young girls really more interesting? Or are they simply easier to cope with, easier to make, as they say, dance to your tune?
Until my 30th birthday, I had no problems dating girls of the same age or even older women, without experiencing any problems. But after the anniversary I was replaced, and I can’t do anything about it. Girls who over 27 years, I simply ceased to perceive, — says 37-year-old Sergey.
“I have tried to date both same-year-olds and girls a little older or younger, but they all seem boring, obsessive, unromantic to me. Can this be considered normal or am I overdoing the stick? the man worries.
“If we talk about young 20-year-old women, they are unlikely to rush to get married and have children. Most likely, these girls are ambitious, active, optimistic about the world. They still do not worry about age, look at the relationship through rose-colored glasses, explains Sergey. counselor.
“Therefore, in maintaining relationships with such girls, it is as if a man ignores his own aging. He comforts himself with the fact that he still likes young ladies, as he did 10 years ago, when he was 27.”
“If a man is so frightened by boring and unromantic women who are fixated on building a family and household chores, then perhaps he is afraid to possess these same qualities himself. Although the interests of women can be different in 35 and 40 years, — said the expert.
“Sergei is more comfortable with a 20-year-old girl to stay in the area of responsibility and interests of a younger age group than he is.” He does not want to accept that life passes, people change, their priorities change. But that is his right”.
“It is another matter that with age a man will find it increasingly difficult to meet the needs of a young partner. How long will it last and what are the prospects of trying to be around only a young girl?
Most likely, a man is experiencing a crisis, but to overcome this stage, he needs to now accept the present and seriously think about the future. Where does he want to be in 10 years? What will be his life without youth romance, without comfortable pink glasses, and what are the advantages of a more mature and responsible life?
It’s a man’s business how to live, but in reality you can’t escape from time to time. Aging will be felt more and more strongly every year. relationships with a large age difference It'll be more problematic. And it is impossible to escape from problems in real, not imaginary age.
And today's edition. "Site" try to evaluate How age difference affects relationships And why is it so difficult for modern men to build harmonious relationships with their peers? Are young girls really more interesting? Or are they simply easier to cope with, easier to make, as they say, dance to your tune?
Until my 30th birthday, I had no problems dating girls of the same age or even older women, without experiencing any problems. But after the anniversary I was replaced, and I can’t do anything about it. Girls who over 27 years, I simply ceased to perceive, — says 37-year-old Sergey.
“I have tried to date both same-year-olds and girls a little older or younger, but they all seem boring, obsessive, unromantic to me. Can this be considered normal or am I overdoing the stick? the man worries.
“If we talk about young 20-year-old women, they are unlikely to rush to get married and have children. Most likely, these girls are ambitious, active, optimistic about the world. They still do not worry about age, look at the relationship through rose-colored glasses, explains Sergey. counselor.
“Therefore, in maintaining relationships with such girls, it is as if a man ignores his own aging. He comforts himself with the fact that he still likes young ladies, as he did 10 years ago, when he was 27.”
“If a man is so frightened by boring and unromantic women who are fixated on building a family and household chores, then perhaps he is afraid to possess these same qualities himself. Although the interests of women can be different in 35 and 40 years, — said the expert.
“Sergei is more comfortable with a 20-year-old girl to stay in the area of responsibility and interests of a younger age group than he is.” He does not want to accept that life passes, people change, their priorities change. But that is his right”.
“It is another matter that with age a man will find it increasingly difficult to meet the needs of a young partner. How long will it last and what are the prospects of trying to be around only a young girl?
Most likely, a man is experiencing a crisis, but to overcome this stage, he needs to now accept the present and seriously think about the future. Where does he want to be in 10 years? What will be his life without youth romance, without comfortable pink glasses, and what are the advantages of a more mature and responsible life?
It’s a man’s business how to live, but in reality you can’t escape from time to time. Aging will be felt more and more strongly every year. relationships with a large age difference It'll be more problematic. And it is impossible to escape from problems in real, not imaginary age.
