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Because of a cold, I came home early and heard my husband rush out his mistress.
What can a woman feel when she realizes that she has been living a lie for years? Husband's deception It hurts, but at the same time allows you to open your eyes to what previously seemed only guesses. Today you will learn a difficult story from the life of our reader Julia. I am sure that it will resonate in the hearts of many women who will read it.
I was married for 5 years, the last year of which was like torture. My husband was very demanding, he raised his voice. I was patient because I loved him. But every day to bear his character was more and more difficult.
The morning began not with a greeting, but with his sullen "Where's breakfast?" The same thing happened to me when I came home from work. There was no talk of romance or romance. Grisha called any manifestations of love calf tenderness, so I have long forgotten what hugs and kisses husband.
One day I came home earlier than usual. The boss let me go because I wasn't feeling well. She must have been under air conditioning. Grisha was surprised that I came so early. You could see he was worried about something.
“Honey, please make me a lemon tea. I feel terrible, I asked quietly. The husband did not answer and went to the kitchen. Half an hour later, he entered the room and started going somewhere. "Grish, I'd like a drink of tea, very bad," my voice heard even quieter.
“You will do it yourself, you will not overwork!” the husband replied in his repertoire. I was very offended, but fighting with Grisha was useless. After some time I fell asleep, and then I was woken up by the voice of my husband, coming from the hallway: “Kitty, today will not work, she is already home.” I'll have a fight with her this weekend.
At first, I couldn’t believe my ears, jumped out of bed and looked through a gap in the door to see what was going on. There was my husband and some tall brunette in a tight mini dress. She hugged Grisha and allowed herself other liberties, which I do not even want to remember.
At that moment, the puzzle in my head began to fold. For some reason, I immediately remembered how Grisha often stayed at work, went to visit her mother, although he had never done this before. So he's been cheating on me for a long time. And his strange behavior, the way he communicated, the betrayal explained everything.
It hurt me, but I tried to pull myself together right away. I went back to bed and didn’t say anything. I couldn’t sleep at night, I was thinking about how to get out of this situation. The next morning my husband woke up and saw that I was still lying in bed: “Hey, what are you lying around for?” Who's gonna make breakfast? ?
“The food is in the fridge, you cook it yourself. I don’t seem to be without arms! my answer shocked Grisha, but he didn’t respond, gathered silently and went to work. So I started implementing my crazy plan. The apartment was mine, so the first thing I did was call the master and ask him to change the door lock.
Then I collected all my husband's belongings, even the equipment he bought. She put everything in the hallway and calmly went about her business. The night Grisha came, I said I would file for divorce myself. Let him get out of my apartment.
Shock! He pretended he didn't understand what was going on. And when I said again that I did not want to see him again, I replied: “You will ask forgiveness from me, ungrateful!” Pf, of course! What else could he say?
I finally calmed down when I got a divorce. Don't believe it, it was so easy. It was as if I had gotten rid of a heavy burden that prevented me from living. I only regret that for so long I tolerated Grisha’s antics and closed my eyes to the way he behaved with me. Don't ever do that!
The actions of Julia deserve respect. Not every girl living with a psychological abuser will be able to quickly decide to leave him. Of course, the boiling point was treason. Agree, women often endure. husbandhoping for the best. But the first lie will be followed by another.
Have you heard of such stories before? What would you do to me as the main character of the story? Share your opinion in the comments!
I was married for 5 years, the last year of which was like torture. My husband was very demanding, he raised his voice. I was patient because I loved him. But every day to bear his character was more and more difficult.
The morning began not with a greeting, but with his sullen "Where's breakfast?" The same thing happened to me when I came home from work. There was no talk of romance or romance. Grisha called any manifestations of love calf tenderness, so I have long forgotten what hugs and kisses husband.
One day I came home earlier than usual. The boss let me go because I wasn't feeling well. She must have been under air conditioning. Grisha was surprised that I came so early. You could see he was worried about something.
“Honey, please make me a lemon tea. I feel terrible, I asked quietly. The husband did not answer and went to the kitchen. Half an hour later, he entered the room and started going somewhere. "Grish, I'd like a drink of tea, very bad," my voice heard even quieter.
“You will do it yourself, you will not overwork!” the husband replied in his repertoire. I was very offended, but fighting with Grisha was useless. After some time I fell asleep, and then I was woken up by the voice of my husband, coming from the hallway: “Kitty, today will not work, she is already home.” I'll have a fight with her this weekend.
At first, I couldn’t believe my ears, jumped out of bed and looked through a gap in the door to see what was going on. There was my husband and some tall brunette in a tight mini dress. She hugged Grisha and allowed herself other liberties, which I do not even want to remember.
At that moment, the puzzle in my head began to fold. For some reason, I immediately remembered how Grisha often stayed at work, went to visit her mother, although he had never done this before. So he's been cheating on me for a long time. And his strange behavior, the way he communicated, the betrayal explained everything.
It hurt me, but I tried to pull myself together right away. I went back to bed and didn’t say anything. I couldn’t sleep at night, I was thinking about how to get out of this situation. The next morning my husband woke up and saw that I was still lying in bed: “Hey, what are you lying around for?” Who's gonna make breakfast? ?
“The food is in the fridge, you cook it yourself. I don’t seem to be without arms! my answer shocked Grisha, but he didn’t respond, gathered silently and went to work. So I started implementing my crazy plan. The apartment was mine, so the first thing I did was call the master and ask him to change the door lock.
Then I collected all my husband's belongings, even the equipment he bought. She put everything in the hallway and calmly went about her business. The night Grisha came, I said I would file for divorce myself. Let him get out of my apartment.
Shock! He pretended he didn't understand what was going on. And when I said again that I did not want to see him again, I replied: “You will ask forgiveness from me, ungrateful!” Pf, of course! What else could he say?
I finally calmed down when I got a divorce. Don't believe it, it was so easy. It was as if I had gotten rid of a heavy burden that prevented me from living. I only regret that for so long I tolerated Grisha’s antics and closed my eyes to the way he behaved with me. Don't ever do that!
The actions of Julia deserve respect. Not every girl living with a psychological abuser will be able to quickly decide to leave him. Of course, the boiling point was treason. Agree, women often endure. husbandhoping for the best. But the first lie will be followed by another.
Have you heard of such stories before? What would you do to me as the main character of the story? Share your opinion in the comments!
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