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I wanted to sleep on Saturday, but my mother opened the door with her key and began to fry chebureki.
“My wife and I bought a house next to my parents. This is probably the stupidest decision of my life. When we bought a house, we thought it would be convenient to leave the children with the parents for a while or come to help if necessary. When I gave my mother a spare key, I regretted it very quickly, Victor wrote. Victor found himself in a difficult situation. On the one hand, the mother tries to help in everything, and on the other - she penetrates into her personal space and restores her order in the family of her son.
Everything was great until my mom retired. She has a lot of free time, and she kindly gives it to my family. Everything was good at first. My mother brought fresh pastries to tea, and my wife did not argue, even if she herself was against us eating muffins. That was just the beginning.
I came home from work and found my wife crying. It turned out that my mother came to visit with pancakes and started cleaning up our fridge. She accused her wife that she does not feed the children properly and does not know how to choose products in the store. I immediately called my mother to resolve the conflict. It turned out that the wife just misunderstood her. All right, let's go.
And the next week we woke up before my mother opened the door with her keys on Saturday morning. She said we slept long and didn't feed her grandchildren, so here's a cabbage pie. I tried to explain to my mother that we have our own family, our own order in the house. We are adults and we know when and what to do. Mom calmed down for a week and then again for hers.
After a difficult week at work, I planned to sleep on my only day off. And then again, my restless mom started rustling in my kitchen. She found an interesting recipe for homemade chebureks and decided to please us. I couldn't stand it. He asked me to give him a spare key and warn us when my mom's coming over. She's offended, but she can't go on like this. We didn't talk for two weeks and then we only talked on the phone. How can a wise adult woman not understand that she simply destroys our family comfort? I see how my wife is always upset after the visits of her mother-in-law, and I want to be the owner of the house.
Then I made up with my mom because I was in the hospital and I had to look after the kids. So my mom said she'd only look after my grandchildren in our house. I agreed. And then my wife called me and told me that my mother cleaned up the closets, in the fridge and threw away two suitcases of our unnecessary things. Is that how to counter it? ?
You can't change Victor's mom. She lives by her own rules and considers herself far smarter than her child and his wife. She may even think she's doing it out of love for her son and grandchildren. In fact, she is destroying the ecosystem of good relations in her son’s family. People who see better don’t change. Therefore, you must either put up with them or stop communicating. You need to communicate with your mother, but you can limit yourself to meetings on neutral territory or visiting your mother. What do you think about that?
Everything was great until my mom retired. She has a lot of free time, and she kindly gives it to my family. Everything was good at first. My mother brought fresh pastries to tea, and my wife did not argue, even if she herself was against us eating muffins. That was just the beginning.
I came home from work and found my wife crying. It turned out that my mother came to visit with pancakes and started cleaning up our fridge. She accused her wife that she does not feed the children properly and does not know how to choose products in the store. I immediately called my mother to resolve the conflict. It turned out that the wife just misunderstood her. All right, let's go.
And the next week we woke up before my mother opened the door with her keys on Saturday morning. She said we slept long and didn't feed her grandchildren, so here's a cabbage pie. I tried to explain to my mother that we have our own family, our own order in the house. We are adults and we know when and what to do. Mom calmed down for a week and then again for hers.
After a difficult week at work, I planned to sleep on my only day off. And then again, my restless mom started rustling in my kitchen. She found an interesting recipe for homemade chebureks and decided to please us. I couldn't stand it. He asked me to give him a spare key and warn us when my mom's coming over. She's offended, but she can't go on like this. We didn't talk for two weeks and then we only talked on the phone. How can a wise adult woman not understand that she simply destroys our family comfort? I see how my wife is always upset after the visits of her mother-in-law, and I want to be the owner of the house.
Then I made up with my mom because I was in the hospital and I had to look after the kids. So my mom said she'd only look after my grandchildren in our house. I agreed. And then my wife called me and told me that my mother cleaned up the closets, in the fridge and threw away two suitcases of our unnecessary things. Is that how to counter it? ?
You can't change Victor's mom. She lives by her own rules and considers herself far smarter than her child and his wife. She may even think she's doing it out of love for her son and grandchildren. In fact, she is destroying the ecosystem of good relations in her son’s family. People who see better don’t change. Therefore, you must either put up with them or stop communicating. You need to communicate with your mother, but you can limit yourself to meetings on neutral territory or visiting your mother. What do you think about that?
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